Nothing to ask, just wanted to tell you that I was really happy to find your blog, because days before I was feeling really bad realizing that so many of the things I felt sounded like ra.dqueer terms (example: "tran. splu.ral"), and it felt so wrong because I technically don't relate to it and in no way support it, but I still felt it and didn't know whether to ignore it or try to pass it off.
But then I found your blog and realized that it is not the feeling these terms are trying to describe that makes them wrong, but the beliefs (and the preffixes) they use to do so.
For example, okay, I feel like maybe I should be plural, but so what? Does this mean that I disrespect plurals or that I will try to invade plural spaces without being plural or that I don't understand what "plural" mean? No, never.
And it also doesn't mean I'm a bad person for feeling this, because it's just a feeling and feelings aren't inherently bad, it's just the actions I decide to take about them that show my true morality.
I'm really grateful, you're so awesome and amazing, thank you :) /gen
I'm so glad Vi was able to help! Tra.nsid people created a lot of terms that would be great if they weren't tra.nsids - eventually Vi plan on rebranding a bunch of them as adidentities (which wasn't coined by ve, but Vi have no idea where the coining post is) so people can use them without associating with ra.dqueers.
Vi suggest you look into willogenic systems - it might be helpful to you! Plural communities are pretty inclusive and supportive of those who intentionally form systems. Ofc Vi suggest looking into plural things and doing plenty of research first, not just going "system stuff sounds fun!" and making a system without understanding the implications of it like a lot of ra.dqueers do.
You're 100% valid, don't let ra.dqueers convince you that you have to be a part of their community just because of a feeling you have - there's always alternate labels you can use :>