#transform your lent

Crucifix - A simple Crucifix with palms. This is the Crucifix that I gaze on each day for my prayer time, to put my thoughts on Love and others, and not on self.  Religious Art Photograph by Frank J Casella - frankjcasella.pixels.com  Pope Francis: “[Today’s Gospel invites us to] turn our gaze to the crucifix, which is not an ornamental object or clothing accessory – sometimes abused! – but a religious sign to be contemplated and understood.”

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(Lent is next week. For those who never had, or need to, read this again)

The Catechism reminds us that the family is the primary place where we learn the priceless lessons of reconciliation and forgiveness. Within the family, we develop essential qualities such as endurance, the joy of work, and fraternal love—virtues that are vital for building strong, harmonious relationships. The family also teaches us that forgiveness is not a one-time act, but something we must practice again and again as we face the inevitable challenges and conflicts of everyday life. As the Catechism states, “Here one learns endurance and the joy of work, fraternal love, generous—even repeated—forgiveness” (1657).

As most of us can attest, family life can also be the hardest place to put these lessons into practice. Living in close quarters, carrying deep emotional bonds, and navigating complicated relationships can make forgiveness and reconciliation especially challenging. Yet the Church urges us to pursue reconciliation within our families, calling us to be “generous and tireless in forgiving one another for offenses, quarrels, injustices, and neglect” (2227). This is not only a natural expression of mutual affection, but also a requirement of Christ’s charity, which calls us to love one another as he has loved us.

Although we may think of many people in our lives as brothers and sisters, and recognize relationships that need healing, the most important restoration often begins at home. This Lent, set aside time to reflect on your family relationships and ask God to bring the reconciliation and healing you need. Pray for the strength to forgive those who have hurt you, and for the courage to apologize and make amends when you have hurt others. As you let go of the tensions and conflicts that have been weighing you down, you can come to the altar with a heart at peace—ready to offer your gift to God with gratitude and humility.