#trans fems

Everyone is welcome to add in these comments btw (unless you're an icky bio and gender essentialist), especially trans fems and trans women because I will be talking about transmisogyny ya know so. BUT EVERYONE IS NEEDED FOR THIS PRETTY PLEASE WITH A SUGAR ON TOP.

Or, we can just not generalize an entire section of our community because some of them are misogynistic and/or convinced the only way they can be treated as people is by putting down women?

Because you cannot say "trans masc" period have starred this because I KNOW thats bullshit. Wanna know why? THE SEVERAL TRANS MEN I KNOW OF ONE OF WICH BEING MY BROTHER!

Im pretty sure the EXACT SAME THING has happened in reverse where trans women would be misogynistic to trans men for the exact same reasons i mentioned earlier for trans men doing but with baeely ANYONE trying to exclude those trans fems from the community.

we want to be penetrated. we want to be fucked, and not just with a physical therapy tool. we feel so many wound up emotions around this topic from both our traumas (especially chronic CSA) and our endometriosis. it felt like for so long it was our fault for not getting pleasure "normally" like other people did, or rather, we felt too much or not at all.

for years I thought we were asexual, but that was before remembering the *chronic* part of our CSA. now that we're working with more information, it does seem like it might be easier to actually accept these feelings and not just that we have vague emotions around it, but it's a genuine need for us! we shouldn't feel embarrassed or ashamed of that anymore, we never should have felt that shame and guilt to begin with.

here's to all people that have experienced vaginal atrophy, and to traumatized bottoms of all variations. we deserve to feel pleasure and enjoy our bodies, just like everyone does. we are not weird or wrong for that.

Some of you may already know me, I am Isabell 🌺.

I am a 24 year old, perisex and nonbinary trans woman. I am not white, and my pronouns are She/Her. I will be signing off with 🌺

I wanted to say, welcome to Wolfe, our new co-runner!

Hello! I’m Wolfe, the co-runner of this blog. I’m 19, and I am an intersex transfemmasc BIPOC woman. My pronouns are shi/hir! I’ll be signing off with 🐺!

As it was before:

This blog is heavily focused towards transfeminine experiences, but transneut and nonbinary lovelies are always welcome. Please know you are very welcome here and I appreciate your contribution, even if this is geared to trans women and transfems <3.

These asks can be to do with daily life, partners (though no detailed sex, this blog IS open to minors.) and it can be joy, anger, or any other messy emotion.

We will do our level best to keep this blog will be kept judgement free, and will be deleting any kind of rude comments/hate or bad faith interpretations.

Please be aware that we will not be answering any asks that are discourse-oriented as of 15th Feb 2025. Venting about your individual experiences is fine, but straight-up trying to discourse with us will not be allowed. This is for the safety, comfort and wellness of both us as blogrunners and our lovely users. We want as many people as possible to feel safe and secure with us, and we can’t do that if we’re platforming polarising statements. Thank you.

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