I guess the thing is is that I dont want a commitment. My parents' marriage showed me that marriage doesn't equal love. I love all of my friends and I want to hook up with them if I like their company. I don't feel like trying dating apps and trying to meet "the one." If I like spending time with you, I probably want to hook up with you. I know that you don't want to hook up with me. I dont understand it but I know it. It's what it is. At 40, it's a bit of a drag but it's where I'm coming from. If I spend time with you, I love you. But I dont understand making some phoney baloney oath to not be attracted t OP anyone else #tomasadork #tomwilldiealone (at Baltimore, Maryland) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZBRkmMsOjK/?utm_medium=tumblr