year 5 with my butch wife. im a femme who lives to test her. its how i tease. we got little replacement light bulbs for our cabinet lights and i insisted on being the one to put them in. i diddled around and even said "i hope i dont electrocute myself!" while she vibrated at unheard of frrequencies behind me. i sighed and said "well you can do it" after i kept failing. she practically removed me from the room in her haste