iāve been doing a lot of thinking. i havenāt been active on this account in foreverā and it isnāt because i forgot the password (obviously because iām posting this), itās because iām not sure iām happy in this community anymore.
my first reason: this community has honestly changed me. for the worst. iāve met so many horrible people on here. iām not going to drop their names, because i am not someone to humiliate others, unlike how they were.
my second reason: lers arenāt treated well in this community. i know because iāve been forced to ler. the lees ALWAYS want to talk to you when youāre in a ler mood, but then when their lee mood is finally cured, or you have no energy to ler them, suddenly the conversation is dry, or they just stop talking to you completely. i understand some lees are needy, i am one of those lees, but donāt make this as an excuse to only talk to someone if it benefits YOU.
this community is HEAVILY unbalanced with its lee to ler ratio. for every 20 lees, thereās only 1 ler that they flock to, trying to be the āuwu im so cuteā let me tell you this one specific thing that flusters me and then tell you NOT to tease me about it, even though i know you will heehee, heehee!!ā type of people.
my third reason: there are too many minors in this community for me to feel comfortable in it. i donāt want to tease minors, because God forbid a minor coming out and accusing you of āgrooming themā. say goodbye to your internet presence.
my fourth reason: this community always made me feel as if⦠i wasnāt good enough. iāve had people not tickle me, because i am not ālee enoughā. at that point, just say you donāt want to tickle me. this community portrays lees as hypersensitive people who have adorable laughs. now, iām not completely sure about this, but i donāt think iām hypersensitiveā honestly, i donāt think iām that ticklish. i just have to act that way because, otherwise itās seen as āboringā. āoh, you donāt have tears streaming down your face as i trace my fingers up and down your stomach?? booorrringgg šššā
fifth reason: people sometimes go painfully OVERBOARD when they want to show that theyāre in a lee mood. like, omg, we get it already. this tease flusters you. they want to be the center of attention every second, even when the people theyāre around arenāt even in ler moods. itās quite literally why when people do this and talk about a specific tease that flusters them, i just say, āi donāt careā BECAUSE I CANT BE BOTHERED TO, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ACT LIKE THATš