#thoughtsofablackgirl

just now I saw a post saying yall have a hard time maintaining dominance with black women and being openly emotional with us so you just cant see yourself dating us.....

but what bothered me was, 

the notes where mostly from people who spend all day lusting after us. 

so what you saying is.....we only acceptable as long as we visually pleasing to you and silent? 

since when is it impossible to express emotions to the group who has yo back in almost every situation? 

even when we get constantly thrown under the bus and our suffering goes undefended. 

even when we get called bitter or angry for standing up for ourselves.

even when we have every reason to be aggressive because in other races an aggressive woman is celebrated, as if she's some kind of super woman for standing up for herself 

but now all of a sudden you can’t express yourself? 

Sasha & Malia Obama At Presidential Turkey Pardon. I need Sasha outfit like now.