#this is enough.

Don’t forget -

Even if we’re weeping we still have to run together -

Run until time can’t find us,

Like birds on the far horizon.

You don’t have to search anymore -

- just hold me in your embrace,

And I’ll quietly forget -

I’m good: this is enough for me.

I honestly dont think its okay in any way. Not here on tumblr and not on urban dict. Some jokes are just that, jokes but a lot of folks are crossing a line (in the phandom).

And stereotyping a gay/homosexual relationship with sexual intercourse into feminine/masculine and insinuating that the “masculine” partner is penetrating the “feminine” partner….this is like stereotyping times 3.

1. they put a fixed bottom/top stereotype on them (which is wrong on a lot of levels and I am not going to explain every one of them.)

2. they “justify”/ argue or whatever.. say that the one who is penetrated is more feminine. (Yikes. hi there heteronormativity.)

3. this whole thing is fucked up and if people cant see that, they are a little fucked up, too. it’s not funny, it never was.

also. people can very easily look dnp up on tumblr. regardless of how it makes them look, people should care about how THEY look when they say bs like that. I will unfollow people over this. I did before.

I do not need this in my life and neither should any other person (regardless of any identifying terms).

This shit isn’t harmless. It is not a joke and it is not a punchline.