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the wisdom ive learnt is that becoming part of a friend group 1) takes a long time and 2) involves a lot of feeling awkward and left out at first. there’s nothing terrible about this but if you grew up chronically lonely or have any kind of trauma relating to social isolation this likely feels Really Wrong and activates danger signals. but both fortunately and unfortunately it’s just how becoming close to new people works most of the time

another thing that was not intuitive to me as someone who grew up an autistic loner: basically everyone on the planet is starved for connection all the time and almost everything people do is an attempt to reach out to another. most seemingly illogical interactions and behaviours can be explained by this. you have to take as many of these invitations as you can. even if you're wrong you still attempted to bring more warmth into the world

Its so sad when gamers have no interest in a games storyline like broooo the developpers themes and ideas. You dont care about their characters? You dont care about their plot and development? You just want to hit things a lot till they die?

Its so sad when gamers have no interest in a games storyline like broooo the developpers themes and ideas. You dont care about their characters? You dont care about their plot and development? You just want to hit things a lot till they die?

Its so sad when gamers have no interest in a games storyline like broooo the developpers themes and ideas. You dont care about their characters? You dont care about their plot and development? You just want to hit things a lot till they die?

they should invent a disproportionate emotional response that goes away when you rationally understand the cause

Dont be very woried about me since i deserve all of this

deadbeat group chat member

Everyone stop treating the upper classes as the default historically and start caring more about the lower classes and the workers of the past who kept the romanticised upper class world functional NOWWWWWWWWWW

Everyone stop treating the upper classes as the default historically and start caring more about the lower classes and the workers of the past who kept the romanticised upper class world functional NOWWWWWWWWWW

Everyone stop treating the upper classes as the default historically and start caring more about the lower classes and the workers of the past who kept the romanticised upper class world functional NOWWWWWWWWWW

Everyone stop treating the upper classes as the default historically and start caring more about the lower classes and the workers of the past who kept the romanticised upper class world functional NOWWWWWWWWWW