#thirtyandfour

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swiper no swiping virginity pls

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dora the crotch explorer

i liked to dip mcdonalds chicken nuggets in caramel sauce

Caramel what?? That totally wins the "you dip your chicken in WHAT?!" contest

thirtyandfour replied to your post: GROSS CLOVER heheh I only eat steak if it’s...

just let it look at the oven in terror then bring it out to me

and who would believe it would have really happen, someone would ever like me enough to be officially ~together~ for six months now. i.. i know i don't always give you the attention you really deserve, and i'm certainly not the smartest pick out of all the dozens of people vying for your affections. but.

i'm so happy to have you. and to be with you; just keep that in mind. october fourth. you're the best thing in my life, my favourite person in the world. i love you, matt. six months later and i'm still deeply, foolishly, head-over-heels in love with you.

yeah well you’re always gonna have idiots and assholes, i’m afraid. reminds me of my first brush with proper feminism, was convinced they were all hateful and disgusting. nah cis just means you’re not trans more or less, nothing wrong with being cis

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just means that you have a certain kinda privilege and accept it? and sometimes trans people might get pissy about cis people but. that’s just sort of . shit happens yeah

Eeeee thanks for all the clarification! \o/

It just rubs me the wrong way a little. I mean, I myself made the decision that I wasn't ever going to get married (if it was, in fact, a man in my life) in part because I hate the idea not everyone who wants to get married can get married and like Sarah Silverman said: "I am appalled by anyone who would get married in this day and age. Anyone who considers themselves "for equal rights"...to get married right now seems very odd to me. It's like if you joined a country club in the sixties where no blacks or Jews were allowed. Why would you wanna join that country club?"

I never thought it really mattered… I don’t have any gender norms concerning my gender but I still like female pronouns being used with me. It’s only complex because people think into it too deeply.

I like female pronouns too, being referred to and seen as a girl (unless I'm in cosplay), but I don't identify with "classic" female gender rolls at all so #shrug. One of the many reasons why I have a tough time in relationships. You're right, it probably doesn't matter, but I had to start wondering about it when  I see people rag on "cisgendered" people all the time and I was like

but what if I'm cisgendered? D:

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it shouldn’t be being used as an insult. a moment maybe of ‘fuckin cis people,’ yeah, but that’s more a privilege issue than an insult. cisgender just means you identify as the gender you were assigned more or less