#thetradthey

I have said this time and time again, it will always stand true.

A response I have gotten from this is, "No one plans divorce".

To which I respond, "Obviously."

However, you can plan to choose a partner who knows how serious and deep the vow you both take together is. A spouse that cheats was a cheater before marriage. A spouse that lies was a liar before marriage. A spouse that is physical was physical before marriage. Or at the very least, showed signs. Before you're even at the marriage stage, make sure to do your due diligence to truly KNOW who it is you could be spending the rest of your life with.

The other side of this is....if your spouse were to do something like this, could the two of you get through it together with complete and total repair? I would say that is another mark of a strong marriage. Anyways thanks for reading my little rant on my feels about marriage.