#therealbeaufly

"I wanted to hug my mother, comfort her and tell her that I was fine, and I couldn't comprehend why I was unable to do so. Why was my physical body not cooperating? Why was I just lying there, lifeless and limp, when all I wanted to do was to hug my beloved husband and mother, assuring them that I was fine and no longer in pain.........After 4 agonizing years, I was finally healed."

So, I began a discussion (last time) about how being in a group means being considerate of others and their needs. I explained that flexibility is needed and key. Sure, I could go either way, I can stay and talk through a schedule or I could respond to an e-mail but because I am in a group and because "talking it out" is important to the group, I go along with the group. Not just because I want to please the group but I want to be supportive to all of the diverse needs of the people in the group......

True and lasting happiness and contentment is always found within. It’s also funny that true happiness often arrives in the simplest of manners and ways.

I have been attacked for being positive, for choosing not to be negative, for choosing not to be mean. I am sorry. I will not be the negative force that many people have chosen to accept as normal. No matter how much people push, I will not budge. I will keep my eyes toward the light and continue to move in that direction. There is no reason and no excuse to be mean.

"What's the most resilient parasite? A bacteria? A virus? An intestinal worm?" ..... "An idea. Resilient, highly contagious. Once an idea has taken hold of the brain it's almost impossible to eradicate. An idea that is fully formed, fully understood....sticks in there somewhere (character pointing to his head)." I do believe that we run on automatic on things that are "stuck" so to speak, in our heads. It may be something you heard a lot while you were younger or something you heard in a culture or society and believed. It could be damaging self-talk that continues to nag and hinder your life.

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