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WinterFalcon/SamBucky Incorrect Quote – 43/?
Sam: I think what you’re experiencing is emotional repression. Bucky: I think what you’re experiencing is being annoying. Sam: That’s deflection. Bucky: That’s accuracy. Sam: You wanna unpack that. Bucky: I wanna leave.
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I'm starting to think we actually have a real problem as a society with people adopting psychological/therapy language without having the understanding to actually comprehend the underpinning concepts...
There needs to be a baseline understanding of human behaviour and interactions first... You can't just "live relationship anarchy" (for example) if you don't fundamentally understand what would be a healthy baseline relationship in the first place, and that the entire prospect of that status is intended as a knowing and open-eyed twist on that baseline interaction.
These terms aren't meant to be used as excuses for poor behaviour or showing a lack of care or compassion.
Part of being an adult is owning, recognising and growing from your own behaviour in order to treat those around you with a baseline level of respect - not twisting and weaponising language to justify what you've been doing as right and rational and anyone who might be harmed by it as the person who just isn't 'with it' enough to understand your fundamental unchangeable nature...
"now cause of social media all these abusers have therapy language to use against their victims--"
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. Foster parents have been legally required to know this language for over 30 years. And if you think that's not the same thing. Honey. Ask a foster kid.
Description: Tiktok from user emgracedawg. The caption says "someone taught a man therapy terminology." She says "I'm setting a boundary with you that you need to put on makeup. You do not look good right now, okay and that's manipulating me into thinking that you're ugly when I-I can't tell if you are or not. The way that you're looking so not pleasant to look at right now is giving me PTSD lowkey like lowkey I'm getting like war flashbacks because you-you just don't look good right now babe. Like you gotta do something you gotta do something about that. And you're gaslighting me right now because you just don't look the way I want you to and so my gas is fricking lit up, it's so lit it's so lit I'm gonna catch on fire. That's how lit it is."
relating to my earlier reblog, i mean some ppl weaponizing therapy language sounds like they are just unable to have a normal back-and-forth conversation. or like, a healthy friendship. It’s like
a friend talking about their worries: just STOP TRAUMA-DUMPING on me
a friend expressing an emotion: omg you CAN’t EXPECT me to do this EMOTINAL LABOUR
their friend/partner disagreeing with them: that’s GASLIGHTINg and u r MANIPULATIVE
someone hoping their friend would sometimes answer their texts: you are literally SO CONTROLLING. no one oWes you thEiR tiMe or eneRGy
a friend responding with a similar relatable thing that happened to them too: whY aRe yOu maKinG thiS cOnveRsaTIon AbOUt YOUrSelF?!?!?!
dissapointed but not suprised that annoying people have utilized therapy language to stay emotionally immature and avoid responsibility
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I wish you had a happy childhood, but I can’t change the past. What I can do is help you make a major shift in your beliefs about who is responsible for the pain of your childhood. This shift is essential, because until you honestly assess who owns this responsibility, you will almost certainly go through your life shouldering the blame yourself. And as long as you’re blaming yourself, you’ll suffer shame and self-hatred, and you’ll find ways to punish yourself.
Susan Forward, Toxic Parents
