#themrseffect

Then the wedding comes and goes, now the pressure is on again, with the question: “When are you having kids?". Don’t be fooled, this is not where it ends! (I am not even joking!).  The question that comes up the most is: “how’s married life?”.  Seriously? It’s obviously great if you see us laughing and joking and picking up weight... #justsaying

So here you go, the effect that marriage had on me, the Mrs effect... (and still has on me).  Our first year was a breeze - probably because we have been living together before we got married.  We both feel that we have a stronger-than-ever, unbreakable bond.  If we weren’t besties before - we definitely are now!  

You learn to accept the small things that irritate you, that can’t change - and let’s be honest we all have quirks and moods and bad habits that gets on your partners nerves!  Like, leaving a wet towel on the bed, sleeping like a hooligan that leads to buying new pillows every month, squeezing the toothpaste from the middle, leaving empty shampoo and conditioner bottles in the shower, leaving pairs of shoes in every room (like he is marking his territory, but TG it’s shoes and not pee) and the list goes on.  At the end of the day - these small things are really just that - SMALL things and you learn to accept it and live with it. I mean, like I said - we all have them and for sure I have tons. 

Somehow, their hobbies rub off on you... I literally became a Gamer, overnight! Have you ever? I can play PUBG for hours and I love it. Yes, I am a noob but I love that too.  Pretty sure if he could rank up in PUBG I would not be allowed to play, using his steam account.  

I can honestly say, the effect that Mrs has on me is amazing.  I am loving our life as Mr & Mrs, so much so, I am naming my blog after my new title. So to answer the most annoying question, “How’s married life?” (*say in annoying voice) - it is legit AF. 

Oh, and thanks for asking.

Married AF, forever.