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#Repost @thetfdseries (@get_repost) ・・・ #Repost @everymums ・・・ #lessonslearned from  the Mr and his Mrs. @feladurotoye and @taradurotoye on LOVE & PARTNERSHIP It is possible to succeed as a wife, mother and in your career or business.  It is how you manage all areas that matter. Men learn from what the women train them to be. Three things that matter to men: . . 1) Affection: a lot of women tend to forget this after marriage. Men also want to be loved. . . 2)Affirmation:  He wants to know that he is the most important person to you. Show him that he is your number 1 priority. Be responsive to the signals he gives. . . 3) Admiration: He wants more than respect. He wants your admiration. He needs to know you look up to him and think the world of him. . As a wife, Focus on doing what you are supposed to do not what your husband is not doing. Love is the most powerful force. If you keep loving, eventually the other person will break. Give the man his place…even if you are a dominant personality, be deliberate and make a conscious effort to be feminine and vulnerable. . . . A prudent wife is a crown to her husband. Therefore it is a wife that makes the man a king; before he marries, he is a prince. The problem is many singles are looking for kings. If you find a king, someone else has crowned him. . . Singles do these 3 things before marriage: Know yourself and your values; know the person very well (with clear eye) and finally communicate your values to him and let him do same. . . . #tfdconference#tfdseries#powerwomen#aboutyesterday#womensupportingwomen

#Repost @thetfdseries (@get_repost) ・・・ #Repost @everymums ・・・ #lessonslearned from Mrs @taradurotoye and Mrs @ibukunawosika ON MENTORSHIP Relationship management is key in a mentee-mentor relationship. Respect relationships, boundaries. Mentorship opens doors for you. Whatever you are doing, wherever you are, remember that you are on a stage; there is always someone watching. Endear people to you by your attitude, smile and demeanor. Be the best of you. Whoever has what you need is who you should go after. How a mentor invests depends heavily on the mentee: their commitment towards their craft, responsiveness to guidance, respect, willingness to learn and apply what is taught.. If you are a female with a married man as a mentee; do your best to have a relationship with his wife first and clear any air. If you can’t, make sure you keep it strictly professional. Always book an appointment, go to his office not social gatherings, keep it strictly business. If you have to go to his house, book an appointment, meet and discuss in open areas like dining area with the wife present. You are responsible for setting the tone of the relationship. . Invest in the relationship. Don’t always seek to be a receiver, give as well. There is always something you can give if you dig deeper. Part 2 of 3. #tfdseries#tfdconference#powerwomen#aboutyesterday#womensupportingwomen