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I think a now-former member taeisha answered your original question? but ahh that’s so wonderful! this is the cutest news hehe thanks for sharing it with us, I’m so so happy for you c: congrats on everything, I hope the two of you are really happy together :* it was no problem at all, glad we could help <3

Hello friend! Sexuality is a whole spectrum, and probably the most confusing thing to try and pin down. There’s nothing wrong with being bicurious, humans are by nature curious creatures. Exploring your sexuality is something you might be doing for a long time! Some people feel that they are straight, engage in some bisexual/homosexual activities, enjoy themselves, but they might end up feeling that it wasn’t for them and just accept that it happened and have no regrets. I believe it’s totally normal for sexuality to develop more throughout your life, because it might flow along the spectrum.

Maybe attending a LGBTQ club might be a good idea! Talking to people who feel similar to you or who have had similar experiences might help you feel more comfortable, and they can certainly support you and maybe help figure out how you feel. Sometimes I think talking to strangers can be easier than talking to friends, because there is a sense of anonymity. You could always explore by going on something like Tinder if you’re comfortable with experimenting and casual sex.

Hello! Relationships and emotions are always confusing. Be honest with yourself, you said that you wanted just a friend right now. Friendships are still important relationships, and there is nothing wrong with keeping him as a friend for now until you’re sure about what you want. I think it would be best to settle down in your new environment and focus on yourself for a little bit. Also, I know sometimes people like the idea of a relationship rather than an actual relationship. It’s pretty easy to imagine wonderful scenarios and things like that, but reality and imagination are very different. I would certainly write out how you feel and try to understand what you do like about him! As cheesy as it sounds, maybe a pros and cons list might help! :)

Hello! I think that the best decision right now would be to take some time for yourself and sort out your emotions. Most people do tend to get into a “rebound” relationship after a break up, but I don’t think that’s always the best thing to do. Break ups do suck, and it might make you feel lonely for awhile, but that’s okay. Moving on doesn’t mean you have to be in another relationship! Wait until you feel ready to be in a relationship again, because you are interested in that person and want to share your life and time with them, not just because it’s there right then and now. I would be friends with that guy right now, because friendships are important relationships to have too.

We can only answer so many questions, as we all have lives of our own existing outside of the blog. We answer as many question as our free time that permits. We currently have 70 messages in our inbox, some of them between 3-6 days old at most. We always answer oldest to newest though, but it can be difficult when we are all busy with school or work. I would keep a lookout for the next few days or so.

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We tag every one of our asks, so I would check the tags. We do have a master list of tags here. That’s the best we can do; otherwise in your message/ask/submission you can ask us to tag it with a specific tag, like your name or something similar.