#syscords

Got banned from a syscord server before i could join in any capacity because the verification had a bunch of really odd, specific... syscourse-y? esqu questions???

Had someone ask about what an endo was and get banned so being in a yapping mood I went into their DMs and explained it (from a medical standpoint as well as explaining each ‘side’ of the issue like a proper intro to a subject should be) they go “oh okay so your stance would be grounds to be banned too?” I said no cause I don’t support endos?? I was just explaining it to th-

one time someone got mad at one of my alters and so they threatened that one of their alters would syshop to my headspace/innerworld and beat up my alter 😭😭😭

Almost every "endo neutral / discourse unaligned" server I've been in has always secretly pro endo. They'd allow anti endos in the servers, but would talk sooooo much shit about them, even if sys course was against the rules, but if an anti started saying anything about endos, it was always "make sure to be respectful of others guys!! Syscourse isn't allowed!!". Naturally

for some reason most of our wildest syscord tales have to do with the closed culture stuff. i respect that some cultural practices and names may legitimately be closed, but the way people are acting and the things people are claiming are 'closed' is getting ridiculous.

Not really a syscord but it had a section for systems. One of the people in the server turned out to be a groomer or something I can't really remember was a while ago and they were talking to me, asking all sorts of questions and I only found out weeks later because I never checked the server thankfully I hadn't interacted with them besides that one time because wow. Looking back on it, they were definitely attempting to prey on me.

once had an acquaintance (who was single + a system) giving dating advice to a friend (also a system but with very different presentation) telling them that having a partner system where specific alters date and pair off (as opposed to every alter is dating every other alter i guess??) was a red flag and unhealthy/borderline abusive because it would worsen dissociation??? my partner and i of several years are both systems and have alters pairing off, acquaintance knew this, we both tried to be like “uh yknow that’s not always the case we’re very happy actually” and they got SO condescending?? like sorry some of us are lesbians and don’t want to date men?? sorry some of us just want friends or have in-sys partners already??? truly bizarre 💀💀💀

I am...genuinely so fucking scared of syscords finding out who I'm a factive of - I don't advertise it (because he was a predator and awful person that everyone from my source's larger fandom has rightfully shunned), but someone could definitely connect the dots. I feel like i have to carry a big old (metaphorical) picket sign saying "I AM NOT [source name] AND DO NOT SUPPORT HIS PREDATORY BEHAVIOR" everywhere I go.