Directly proportional to optimism !!!
Destiny is pre-determined and nobody knows what's gonna happen. But I feel our destiny is some way directly proportional to the way we react to it.
Continuous cry shown to the problems we face is the welcome sign we give to those problems to take over ourselves. Then crying gets filled in our subconscious and grumbling becomes our way of life. To avoid this we need to develop an optimistic approach.
It's the human tendency to grumble if something unexpected happens or something didn't turn out as expected. We cannot certainly avoid it. But the moaning or grumbling should be a temporary one. Then we need to realize the reality. Who don't have problems? I too have got irritated with many things and have complained. But all those lasted only for little time.
We are very much capable of finding solutions. But we don't have the patience to accept the situation. Only after the acceptance stage, our mind can work to look for solutions. Making a fuss of something will never let us accept things.
In an earlier post, I shared that humans love to find fault in others. Finding faults in someone may irritate them. The same applies here. Continuous fault-finding in our Fate designed by the Supreme power is a fault on us and it may irritate Him✌. There is no solution other than optimistically dealing with it.
Well, I accept, it is easy to say something. But practically is it possible for us to be optimistic in every situation? The answer is No. But let's try to the extent possible. Let's believe firmly that everything happens for a reason and try to figure out the next move to face it.
Let's value what we have. Only this realization can make us face things better.
