Ooc: i have to agree somewhat with the anon, not about her being a bitch. but cedes knows this about sam. she is choosing to ignore what she knows for what she wants. it's not naive or being young. it's being selfish. her age is no excuse. she's use to having things her way and sam always giving in. but she is in the wrong. her learning always comes at sam's expense. i know she loves him and he loves her but she really needs to examine herself. age is an excuse for only so much.
ooc: To some degree, I agree with you. But she is being naive and young, meaning she’s not even seeing that she’s being selfish. She’s naive in thinking that this is all a “Sam issue” and not a her issue. I wasnt saying use her age as an excuse but what I am saying is that there’s a time when we all, especially teenage girls, do stupid things. Where we dont realize, this is selfish, or this is wrong, or this is mean, or this might hurt someone until way down the line when that level of maturity kicks in. She’s just not mature enough to see that this is selfish. So that’s where the naive and young thing comes in. You’re right, her learning does tend to come at his expense but he’s the closest person to her and that happens sometimes. The same way his learning came at her expense. Think about it like this. She’s lived a horribly sheltered life. She’s never had to think about anyone else’s feelings or about their insecurities or problems. So look at the irony that she ends up loving someone with a hell of a lot of problems and insecurities and issues. She’s managed to deal with some of it so far but again, it’s just another learning experience for her. She’s still in her growing process. I keep saying it but I mean it, she just has to learn.Â