[ 090718 1:31am ] \\ < so i went to bed at 8.30pm and now i can't go back to sleep.. >
Tonight's topic: being the bigger person
- let kimothy talk about it -
I just wanna say how there comes a point in your life where you have to get over yourself and stop being so sour at everyone because you aren't getting what you want and someone else is.
Like, highkey a quote i live by:
"Girls compete but women complement"
Stop hating and being unsupportive because if they can go and do shit why can't you? If goes for men too. Not everything is a competition.
Y'all gotta be happy for each other. Stop looking for fights and sht. Stop talking smack if you can't take what's being dished out to you either.
Another thing that bothers me. .. if you can't take an insult, dont go commenting about others..tf.
Plain simple.. if you know u get hurt easily, if you can't take a joke, if someone says something (as a joke- like i call my bffs hoes but they kno i love them. ..even when i make fun of them cause we close like that. We r practically family so i say dumb sht to their faces all the time..-) and you're easily offensive then just ignore or tell them that it bothers you. There's no reason for you to be ears deep in their business (if its a stranger & it dont concern u) or for u to be getting an attitude/stressed .. (if its personal than that's another story...)
None the fucking less, you can't go insulting ppl and adding fuel to the fire. You gotta take a step back, breathe and diffuse the problem. Use your words, my gosh and stop being petty and talking in metaphors.
Say what you gotta say, say it nicely and try to avoid problems cause ppl out there are waiting for u to mess up or just wanna hurt you for no reason. It be like that sometimes.
If you have a story/question ...
If you or a loved one has ever faced such a problem...
You just wanna put in ya two cents and/or disagree..
Message/ask me, reblog or comment.
Lifes too short to be self conscious. Say what's on your mind. It don't gotta be right or liked.
Who gives a sht if ppl wanna laugh at you. They dont control ur life, u can say (almost!!) what ever u fucking want tell them to deal with it.
(someone who needs to take her own advice and speak up more)