#str(ram)

Never giving a single fuck about how ppl identify and define their relationships because 80% of the stuff that gets me overthinking my own (very healthy) relationship is people (who don't know me or my gf personally) telling me I'm just a gross straight man invading women's spaces, fetishizing lesbians and that "oh my gosh, this poor queer girl, she's dating a man, ew ew ew, dating a man is the worst thing that could ever happen to her"

Anyone else whose native language isn't English struggle with identifying accents? I learned English from YouTube when I was a kid (so maybe that's why I can't tell them apart, I learned from a big mix of every accent) and I clearly remember seeing people make fun of this or that accent and I could not figure out what they were on about. I genuinely had to put time and effort into differentiating a British accent from an American one. I had no idea a YouTuber I watched with my dad and my brother had an accent until he made a QnA and explained he's from Lithuania, which explains the heavy accent (which I did not hear somehow?? Now I hear it and yeah, indeed, that's a pretty heavy accent)