#stop being miserable

Friday, 08/06/2018.

Hello again.

Today I learned a new thing: how to win at life, basically. How to be full. 

I think by this time we all know that happiness doesn’t really last for a long time, so our life goal should not be ‘to be happy forever’ you know? cause that’s impossible. We want to be full, we want to live in plenitude, so when hard times come, we know exactly how to react and what to do with our emotions, and most importantly: we know that we’ll be ok. I think we shouldn’t run away from our unpleasant emotions, but let them flow within us and with that, overcome them. 

So, the key is: balance.

Do you know what the balance symbol is? It’s a triangle △. I love triangles thanks to that. It means we need three pillars or bases for our life to be balanced. We need to take care of:

△ Self acceptance

△ Physical healthcare

△ Social relations

Rocking those three aspects of our life will really get us to a state of plenitude. I will be talking about those three aspects in other entries, because I don’t want this one to be that long lmao.

I’ve also been thinking about love. I think I was afraid to fall in love because I used to think that once I was in love I would never be able to be by myself again. I didn’t want to emotionally depend on another person, because that’s what was happening to me. I think I finally found the way for loving my significant other (who is not really my partner yet) and not depending on him being exclusive to me, because no one is exclusive, you can’t really posess anyone all for yourself, cause we’re all people, not objects. I think I’m finally free... 

Meanwhile, I'll leave you with this cute graffiti that I found walking absentmindedly on the street. It says “Forgive me biter, I love you”. Biter as someone who bites. Did I tell you that I love learning new languages? By now, I speak english, spanish, japanese and a little bit of french. I want to learn more.