Hello new followers!  Welcome.  Please feel free to send me asks at anytime and/or submit things you think may be relevant to this blog. As you are new here you may not be aware of who I am, my beliefs, etc... so here’s a bit about me and the blog 

41, divorced from an abusive relationship going on 2 years, CSA and Rape survivor, bisexual het partnered, C-PTSD, Anxiety, Depression, animal lover, gender critical.  Here are some things I believe that are apparently controversial on this micro blogging hell site but in no way should be 

Lesbians do not ever have to interact with a dick in any capacity in any way and no one should say otherwise FOR ANY REASON

Trans women are socialized differently than afab women and that should just be god damn common sense but apparently no 

afab women are oppressed specifically because of our biology in a way that trans women never will or could be and that needs to be acknowledged and allowed to be spoken about 

men are the oppressive class, if you were socialized as or part of the oppressive class you can not come into the oppressed class and just claim you belong there now more so than those of us who never had a choice to opt out 

sex based oppression is a fucking thing and I will speak about it whenever i wish and however I wish 

Swerf is a made up term for people who lack critical thinking skills or who are trying to use it to continue to benefit from the sex work industry 

abortion should be free and legal to all 

Men dont get to have an opinion on abortion 

If you call me a uterus bearer, menstruator, bleeder or any of these terms I will block you. I am an adult human female not some fucking vessel for an organ 

She’s basically agreeing that she’s been lying all this time, exactly like what myself and many others have said. 

Wow!  So I have been browsing some blogs and wound up on this feminist blog and was amazed at the man-hate I was reading.  I get feminism, and consider myself a feminist.  Women absolutely deserve equal rights all the way around.  But denying differences between genders I think is a little naive.  

I am a married man.  I understand that there are men out there, and WAAAY more than you would think humanly possible, that take advantage of women everyday.  They think they have the right to sexualize any woman they lay eyes on.  But categorizing every man this way?  I mean, shit....really?  I’m sorry you have had fucking terrible experiences with men, but I kind of got a little offended reading a bunch of the shit I saw.  

My wife is a metallurgical engineer (I know...wtf is that, right?).  She works in the steel industry which is a male dominated industry.   She has had to put up with an incredible amount of bullshit from male coworkers (”smile more,” “don’t worry your pretty little face,” etc.)  and still goes to work happily every day.  I admire her greatly for that, as she is stronger than I ever will be.  

That being said, she at least acknowledges that not all men are assholes, or at least she must, as I was lucky enough to be chosen by her.  I think a bunch of the authors of the posts I was reading should take a page out of her book. She can continue to work in that industry and not hate men.  She has been assaulted before, but realizes not ALL men are like that.  My wife is a fucking amazing woman.

that’s really fucking creepy? K and I don’t ever talk anymore except when these people start trying shit so I’m just gonna remake, this has crossed a line. I linked my personal to this one and it has my goddamn photos on it

D clearly has some underlying personal drama invested in this that I’m just not aware of or something bc how on earth else does everyone’s least favorite fuckingrapeculture mod (bc of her tendency to step way tf out of line w/re to sex workers and rape victims and make people pull teeth to get an apology - her uncomfortable behavior was why I unfollowed that blog during my white feminist phase two years ago and she hasn’t changed one bit) 

take one argument and 5 individual accidental interactions (mix of blog visits by other mods and reblogging posts from someone that reblogged from one of D’s various side blogs) over a period of 4 months and turn it into such a massive campaign against so many different people, using immoral crap like literal stalking, faking hateful anons to geekandmisandry in K’s name, taking radfem’s posts and claiming we made them, unbelievable hypocrisy, etc.

there’s something else I wanna say too