Hi!! I've seen the untamed and A. I love your posts!! B. I was wondering if you'd read the book and maybe had any warnings to give for someone who is ace and would very much not like to read beyond kissing?? And C. Do you have a favorite episode of CQL? If yes then which and why??
Hello hello, I’m so glad you like my posts! I have indeed read MDZS and do indeed have warnings for it. I listed the major ones here in a post when someone asked for a link to the translation (I promise the link is there if you hover over it). I will add spoilery ace-specific warnings (basically a list of the very few chapters and sections to skip) at the end of this post because tumblr is inconvenient about spoiler cuts. But in the meantime, my favorite episode!
My favorite episode of CQL is ep 44 (with a possible option on the first ~24 minutes of ep 45 as well, but mostly ep 44). It has almost everything I love.Wangxian! Wangxian with kids! The kids themselves! Lan Wangji and WeiWuxian standing together! The inherent ridiculousness that is required to happen whenever Wei Wuxian and Wen Ning are within five feet of each other! And of course, Wei Wuxian finally gets to talk back at people for spreading malicious rumors about him and blaming him for every wrong in the world. This ask probably doesn’t require graphics, but staring at these pictures makes me happy so here we go. The highlights:
Okay, on to the ace-friendly content guidelines:
You’re honestly good to go for quite a long time, though you should know that the dynamic is different. CQL has a lot more build-up and, frankly, pining going on that MDZS does. Some of this can be attributed to translation (there are references EN readers won’t catch), and some to the fact that Wei Wuxian is the POV character and he is undeniably an unreliable narrator who barely knows what he himself wants, let alone anyone else. He spends a long time thinking Lan Wangji dislikes him, and not realizing he himself is bi. He also… flirts in a way that is intended to offend, when he’s pretending to be Mo Xuanyu, and some of those situations involve innuendo. It’s just really different for a long time.
Okay, moving on. This story is not really about smut and sex at all. There is some kissing without explicit consent in chapter 69 (Wei Wuxian doesn’tknow who’s kissing him but the audience does). If you want to skip that section stop reading at “After the song finished, Wei Wuxian crossed his arms and leaned against the tree in a more comfortable position. The flute was between his arms, while the flower was still at his chest, emitting a crisp, quiet fragrance.” and skip to “He began to walk randomly around the forest.”(this is in the middle of a paragraph, but the start is just about giving up looking for the person who kissed him).
You might want to skip chapter 95 entirely, and definitely most of it. You maywant to stop reading at “After a hard struggle, Wei Wuxian finally dragged Lan Wangji back to the inn. When the owner saw that they caught two hens in the middle of the night and even gave them to her, her expression almostcouldn’t be put into words” in Chapter 94 (It’s the start of a bath scene that leads into the next chapter). There is one section at the end of chapter 95 where Wei Wuxian begins to confess his feelings after sex if you want to read that. It starts with “Wei Wuxian had buried the things he wanted to ask Lan Wangji inside of him for a long time, too afraid to ask” and does contain some situational references to the sex (they’re on the bed and Wei Wuxian is calming down), and goes through the end of the chapter. If you want to avoid it entirely you can skip straight from the start of the bath scene in 94 to chapter 96 and just know that they’re having major, major miscommunications about feelings.
You should be good from then on until chapter 111 in terms of actual sex taking place. Wei Wuxian references the sex and wanting to sleep with Lan Wangji in chapter 100 as part of the actual confession scene (“I want/wanted to sleep with you”). It never gets more explicit than that phrase, but it’s almost impossible to edit out by skipping text and there’s a lot of plot happening around it.
In Chapter 111, you have some choices. If you don’t want to read references to the kiss in chapter 69, stop at “As he wished, Wei Wuxian was pinned onto the ground and smooched for a long while.” If you don’t mind that reference, stop at “Only a lil’ fuddy-duddy like you would believe me hahahahahaha…” Then you can either skip rest of the chapter, or to “Carefully, Lan Wangji went to kiss him, his movements somewhat clumsy”and read through “Until now, it’d been thirteen years since scab grew over this wound” if you want the story of how Lan Wangji got a brand on his chest to match Wei Wuxian’s scar (this tangent is embedded within the sex scene).
Chapter 112 is really up to your taste, and there’s nothing super plot-relevant you’ll miss by skipping it. There’s no sex, but there are references to the fact that they’re having sex often, and there’s a bunch of teasing that leads tolight bondage and making out before they’re interrupted by the novel’s version of meeting Mianmian and her family. I think that if you want just the Mianmian scene without the references and teasing you can start at “The two parted at once” and end at “Lan Wangji plunged over and finally caught him, holding him tight in his arms as he protested, ‘We have [bowed as in a marriage ceremony], so we already are… [married].’”
Chapter 113 is the conclusion of the main text and is entirely ace-friendly. They’re married! And happy! Joy and looking to the future!
I have not read most of the extras. The last two (125: Lotus Seed Pod and 126: Dream Come True) are the only two I have read, and they are ace-friendly (there’s some pining and kissing and flirting and cuteness, but nothing beyond that). I know that you definitely DO NOT want read the Incense Burner extras (117 and 119). They’re reportedly entirely dream/fantasy smut stuff.
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have more questions ^^
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Hey! I was wondering if you had any recommendations for easy to read, cute romances, with little to (preferably) no sex? I don't mind any additional genres or period. Maybe books a little more on the unknown side?
Sure! Some are a little more angsty than others, but all of these feature cute, fluffy romances without/with very little sex. I’ve starred the books which feature explicitly asexual characters in romantic relationships.
Contemporary realistic:
Everything Leads to You by Nina LaCour
Future Leaders of Nowhere by Emily O’Beirne
Going Vintage by Lindsey Leavitt
Radio Silence by Alice Oseman* (the romance is between two side characters)
Saint Anything by Sarah Dessen
Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli
Tash Hearts Tolstoy by Kathryn Ormsbee*
The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen
The Upside of Unrequited by Becky Albertalli
Fantasy/Sci-Fi:
Cinder by Marissa Meyer
Strange the Dreamer by Laini Taylor
These Broken Stars by Amie Kaufman & Meagan Spooner
Hi! I was wondering if you had any recommendations for easy to read romance stories with little or (preferably) no sex and maybe New Adult? Thank you so much!
I am currently out of the loop of New Adult things and all the stuff I can think of at the moment is heavy on the sex (it’s my wheelhouse of work so it usually is) but I shall throw this out there because I know some of my followers will have great suggestions :)
Now that I have warmed up to all the characters, I wish they would use Ahro as an agent of her own actions rather than to propagate the bro-moments. Sooyeon, especially, I thought was amazing with her forwardness. Ahro needs to have more screentime.
this fandom treats her like shit, and though the drama has created this fantastic character it also–treats her like shit. i wasn’t going to say this, but what the heck. it bugged me, so here it is:
that scene where Soo Yeon’s bawling her eyes out to Ah Ro, before she’s about to be sent to her death in Baekje. just–why? Soo Yeon hadn’t even had a proper verbal conversation with Ban Ryu at that point. and okay, i get it, it can be upsetting. the guy you’ve been crushing on is heading off to war. might not return!! mortal danger!! (that he puts them in!! lol i’m not touching that one with a 10 foot pole).
but when Ah Ro asked her if she wasn’t going to worry for her, her response was to say “Why would I? (You’re going with your brother, aren’t you?)” this is the Ah Ro that’s literally her only friend. her best friend since childhood. so you expect me to believe that ½ of the best womance this drama has, would be bawling her pretty eyes out over a dude, and not the fact that she might never see her girlfriend again?
and then you have that scene where Pa Oh on is all tearing up over Sam Maek Jong. so, what? Ah Ro’s not worth crying over?
my dude, this is what happens when the girls are forcibly reduced to being love interests for the guys. i need more scenes of Ah Ro doing her own thing, saving all their asses with her skills that no one else!! but of course, the drama does that and the fandom screams about it, so. what can you do?
sorry this turned into a bit of an angry rant. i’m just really tired. :(
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squishybunny129 replied to your post “Has anyone done any serious meta on the idea of “Orestes Fasting,...”
I would seriously like to work on this someday o.o if I may?
I posted this like three years ago and have pretty heavily distanced myself from the fandom and particularly this ship since then. Feel free to use it. Have fun!