#sps

thank you @snowinthetunnel for helping me with the character list

Something finally clicked in my mind that I want to share.

Think about how you're the one who's creating your reality and things that are happening in it. This of course includes people. Now, think about how some LOA content creators have mentioned "creating your dream SP out of thin air." Think about the talk of creating a list -whether you've created it in just your mind or written it out on paper - of those desired traits you want in an SP. You've either seen it come to fruition in somebody you already know or someone who just shows up (the person created out of thin air).

So, this means that you've already made this person out to be your partner, your friend, your boss, etc. They are already programmed into your life as your SP. Their whole purpose in your life and why they came into your life is to be your partner, your friend, your boss, etc. Whatever role you want them to play is already the role they are specifically meant to play. The reason you may not be seeing them in this role (ie. they're being mean, they're dating someone else) is because insecurities and/or worries you're having deep down are subconsciously projecting that way into this story with your SP.

How can you help dodge these worries and insecurities? You can tell yourself exactly what I said: "[SP] came into my life as [this role]." Don't even refer to them as your SP (only use the term for security purposes online to keep their name hidden). Refer to them only as their role in your mind and don't say or imply out loud that they aren't already playing that role.

This clicked for me because I was thinking about Bee (my boyfriend) and how he just so happens to tick off every box for me on my list of desired traits. So, this happens to just be a coincidence? Absolutely not. Even small, sillier traits that my mind knows I'm attracted to are a part of him (ie. a little tooth gap, brown eyes, being only a bit taller than me). My mind knows and had him enter my life to be my boyfriend before I even realized it and developed feelings for him. I also think about when I make friends and how they reflect me so much and go through a lot of what I go through simultaneously. They came into my life to be my friends.

It's always capitalisms fault!