My friend has never heard of Diomedes before; how would you describe him? Like his motivations, his way of thinking, his strengths and weaknesses, his relationships, major plot points?
(I would explain him myself but I'm still not that far in the Iliad.)
Hello, thank you soooo much for this ask and sorry for the late reply!
First of I want to say that weâre by no means experts on Diomedes. Weâre still in the process of learning more about him and discovering and exploring him through this musical, so people with a background in ancient studies might have a more detailed/accurate analysis of him than we can provide at the moment. But we still try to answer you to the best of our abilities!
(Youâre welcome to correct us in the comments/reblogs ^^â )
In the words of @holy_mother_of_whumpers:
Diomedes kicks ass more than anyone in the Iliad, is scolded more than anyone. Odysseus best friend (according to historians). Shitty childhood (incest, prophesies and and a lot of dead relatives, which is almost as ancient Greek backstories go), shitty post Troy (banished from his city, cursed by Aphrodite). Actually happy ending (founder of cities, immortalized by Athena).
Heâs like Odysseus, but with an unbelievably tragic childhood and less disaster energy. He gets stuff done and slays doing it
But hereâs our answerâŚsorry if this is turns out too long!
Starting out with your question about his motivations
Oath bound, Diomedes avenged his fathers death at the age of 14, sacking the city of Thebes (the epic surrounding it is called âEpigoniâ but unfortunately itâs a story lost to history, also he was 4 when he took the oath, should that count rly? shouldn't there be an age of consent for oaths? anyway)
The story surrounding his fathers death is tragic and a bit disgusting (he ate brain and Athena who wanted to gift him immortality was too disgusted to do so)
Diomedes doesnât remember his father, and he still gets compared a lot to him (just see Agamemnon low-key trash-talking him by stating how much of a better fighter his father was to motivate him for battle) so that kind of plays into his motivations
Additionally like so many other heroes, glory and honor are definitely also motivations of his. Often it is Athena who pushes or motivates him to many of his greatest deeds and other feats (like wounding Ares, throwing the spear at Dolon, beating everyone in the funeral games,âŚ..yeah Athena HATES loosing)
Whatâs interesting that despite the fact that he was raised on war, later on â after Troy (and admittedly, even more warfare) â heâs said to have wanted to settle down more, founded his cities in peace (or as peaceful as life for kings was back then haha)
In the Iliad Diomedes is always the first to volunteer, and despite often getting treated rather badly (Nestor kicked him awake, my boy was even sleeping in his armour, Agamemnon calls him a coward) he tends to keep a cool head and doesnât retaliate (âŚexcept that one timeâŚ.or two?) BUT he also definitely doesnât take BS, he calls out Agamemnon for being a bad leader when he suggests to leave (Diomedes insists they stay and fight until they won)
For his way of thinkingâŚheâs rather pragmatic, a good strategist (mentored by athena), first to jump into the fray, trusts his own strength, knows when to back down/when to talk back, can get caught up in the heat of the moment in battles, doesnât shy away from violence, lies & trickeryâŚ. (correct me on this if I'm wrong or missed something)
One thing that makes him stand out among the other heroes is that arguably, heâs one of the few greek heroes whose lives donât end in a complete tragedy because of his hubris against the gods (âŚâŚ.wellllâŚâŚâŚ..his wife betraying him after he injured aphrodite and being exiled for arogs is an instant where he still pays for his acts against the goddess, but its tame compared to many other heroes fates, who committed lesser crimes) and in the end he even gets deitified (or at least in some versions, like athena wanted to do with his father, but his father messed upppppp soâŚ..)
Heâs more level headed than many other heroes (cough Odysseus âi am in the infamous odysseusâ King of Ithaca)
Heâs one of the best fighters - or THE best fighter of the greeks next to Achilles, the trojans were more scared of him than of Achilles (âŚ.since Achilles didnât fight) without him the AchaeansâŚ.wouldâve probably lost the war
As for his weaknessesâŚ.one thing is something thatâs not even within his own control: his young age (compared to the other kings), almost nobody realllyyyy respects him despite his badass deeds on the battlefield and good battle advice, his many ships he brought and his battle experience even before the war and two) the kind of lingering shame of his fathers final moments (nom nom brain, and failing to take Thebes), but also his fathers supposed greatness that he keeps getting compared to and has to live up to
NowâŚ..his relationshipsâŚoh boy theres so many, Iâll try to sum up the most important ones I know in once sentence for each
His father: he doesnât remember him, but people keep bringing him up and comparing him to him
We dont know much about his relationship with his mother
mostâŚof his other (male) relatives die in his early youth (which is how he ends up as King of Argos) like his grandfathers, and his unclesâŚ
Agamemnon: the boss whoâs a bully, but Diomedes talks back to him sometimes at least (âŚunless heâs insulting him, he just accept that)
Ajax: Diomedes almost kills him during the funeral gamesâŚ.the acheans have to break up the fight
Achilles: Diomedes doesnât like him, Dio is the only one who wants him punished for killing Diomedes cousin that everyone else hated
Odysseus: LOTS of tea to be found here (he seems to see Ody as a mentor figure and keeps picking him as companion for missions, they both have Athena as their patron goddess but while Odysseus leans a little bit more on the wisdom part, Diomedes leans more into the pure strength of battle, they work well together and have a bunch of missions together)
Most noteable are Sthenelus (known him since early childhood) and Euryalus, who are with him in Troy, they were part of the Epigoni (its rly a long story)
His wife: is his cousin, he marries her to strengthen his rulership, in the end, its said that she betrayed him with a new lover and exiled him from his own kingdom (another long story)
Glaucus: they met on the battlefield and realized their grandfathers were broâs so they didnt fight each other, and instead exchanged armours (but Diomedes got the better, golden armour, while Glaucus got the bronze armour..)
There is sooooo much more to say about him, all the stories of the Iliad, the events before AND after it, his relationship with Athena, etc. I barely scratched the surface here so maybe we have to make a whole series of posts about this one day so we can get more into detail because its so much! (Let us know if we should???)
I hope this answered some of your questions, though! And again thank you so much for your interest and apologies for the late reply!