#softromo

Angled aroace

yes its an aroace label instead of just an aro one- but i wanted to add it.

basically when your ace-spec & aro-spec, and you feel a tertiary attraction significant enough to you that you place it along side the other two.

the one that i feel is either alterous or queerplatonic. or both.

Aroflux

when you fluctuate across the aromantic spectrum, i definitely go from romance favorable to neutral to repulsed and back again on a unknown schedule.

but through the changes some parts still feel stagnant, such as:

Demiromantic & Recipromantic

one is about not feeling romantic attraction untill you have an emotional bond with a person, the other is only feeling attraction when you know a person is attracted to you.

if i were to ever be in a romantic relationship i dont think id feel romantic attracton untill 1-i knew they felt that way about me & 2- i had an attachment to them.

Cupioromantic

this is about wanting a romantic relationship despight not having the attraction.

which i do. even tho i dont feel attraction to anyone (yet) i would like to be in a romantic relationship.

Lovepunk & Lovequeer

2 difrent identities that reject amatonormitivity and the oppression that aspec individuals experiance

Softromo

this isnt an identity but a type of relationship that has low levels of romance, like a mix between a queerplatonic relationship & a romantic relationship

its just a relatioship i'd like to have.

Iodic

a type of relationship used by aro-specs to describe their idea relationship.

said relationship could be queerplatonic, appromour, delamour, or something simmilar