#softboy

Femboy/Tomgirl/Mollygirl/Calicogirl/Janegirl: A man who presents femininely.

Flamboyant: A man who dresses or behaves in a dramatic (perhaps a bit bratty), exuberant, flashy manner. Oftentimes this is considered to be "feminine energy", because of how men and women are stereotyped (and how men are not expected to have this type of energy.) This isn't an inherently queer term, nor is it inherently limited to men - it is just most often applied to queer men.

Softboy: A man who has soft/gentle physical and/or behavioral characteristics. This isn't an inherently queer term, but is often used for queer men.

Twink: A skinny queer man who bend traditional gender roles in some sense. Twinks may be femboys, flamboyant, softboys, or some combination.

Twunk: A slightly more muscular twink, considered the in-between stage of a twink and hunk.

(Note 1: Enben and genderqueer women may identify as femboys, softboys, twinks, and twunks too.

Note 2: Don't call any real person any of these terms, unless they explicitly identify with them - especially not trans men and/or intersex men who have less androgenized/more estrogenized characteristics.)

Xenoexpressive: Where one expresses in a way that feels connected to their Xenogender. (So for example someone who is Sungender may wear clothes with Sun Aethistics if said person feels that feels connected to their gender)

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Softboymoder (softboy+boymoder): Where someone expresses in a boyish way, but the person does not feel said expression is strongly masculine.

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Softgirlmoder (softgirl - girlmoder) Where someone expresses in a girly way, but the person does not feel said expression is strongly feminine.

You can look over terms here [link], but I'll summarize a few that you might connect with!

Femboy/Calicogirl/Tomgirl/Janegirl: A man who presents femininely.

Rosboy: A mingender (masculine-gendered) person who presents femininely, or a mingender person who has a deep connection to femininity, which typically goes beyond just presentation.

Softboy: A mingender person who is soft/gentle in personality and/or appearance.

Flamboyant: A person who acts/presents in a fancy or over the top (often sassy) manner. This is often applied to men, but can be applied to women & enben as well.

Twink: A skinny queer person (often a man) who bends traditional gender roles in some way, usually by being a femme, a softboy, or flamboyant. Twunk describes a twink that is slightly more muscular.

Femme: A queer person who presents femininely. Oftentimes they will bend traditional femininity.

Sugar Bear: A bear (fat/muscular [usually mingender] person) who is gender non-conforming (usually presenting femininely, but other gender presentations may apply.)