Uh i think it was you that talked about using a soft packer for sex? Or getting head while packing it? How does that work? I'm sorry. Ignore if the question is too personal!
I think another butch brought it up first in a post here about soft packers, but yes I prefer my packer to be somewhat functional.
I haven’t yet been in a situation where I couldn’t swap out my packer for a hard dick to fuck with so I haven’t attempted actual penetration. To be honest, I hard pack more than I soft pack. One helpful butch in the Butch Stones discord server was recently talking about the variations of silicone, how it’s cured, and what that means for the body-safe aspect. Please join us there if you’re comfortable and have questions because I’m definitely not an expert and we have some really smart folks that know a lot more.
Now pussy/anal penetration aside, I’m always up for a little pre-big-hard-dick-head head. Touching, rubbing, grinding on my bulge is going to inevitably lead to me wanting to watch the head of my dick disappear into a soft mouth or see the erotic lap of the tongue teasing just the tip. Even if it’s just a packer, I’m here for the devotion and the performance of a femme admiring whatever I’ve got in my pants. It makes things a little easier on her, too. Deep throating a 4” soft packer is a quick route to “wow you’re taking so much” and “what a good girl fitting my whole cock in your mouth like that” so don’t sleep on getting head while packing.
Another tumblrino here said their wife calls it lazy head day when it’s a blow job on a packer. I consider it a really yummy appetizer before the full meal.
