#societies expectations

psa to girls, you don’t have to have long hair, bigs boobs and booty, and a slim waist to be considered ‘attractive’. ur natural form and creation is what makes u beautiful, and those w unrealistic expectations of women will forever be wanking in the bedroom of their mothers house at 36 years old xxx

Weddings

So arrows and fairy tales said something about being single in your 20s and id really like to add to it cos it really touched me. To see her and others with comments in the same situation as me l always thought i was different or odd. I just turned 20 ans have never had a bf,never been on a date never been kissed never even had someone interested in me. Nor do I even have guy friends. And I’ve told myself during school its because your so tall (im 6'1) but theirs always that voice in the back of mu head telling me its because theirs something wrong with me. I’m too weird. Too ugly too anything but gf material. Society and my friends have always said don’t be defined by a man.. and this angers me because I’ve never seen myself that way… when i say I want a bf I’m not asking for the next bloke who walks down the street just for the sake of having a relationship ..i want that companionship with someone else, that feeling of being loved by someone else and having someone who looks out for u. And i am very confident in who i am, i know who I am and who i want to be, I’ve traveled america by myself i can go to a movie or eat food alone and it doesn't bother me but that doesn't mean i still can’t want that companionship. If i asked every person who told me that and said why don't u break up with your husband wife gf bf if your so sure in being loved by yourself, they would calk u crazy because theirs something about it you wouldn't give up so stop telling me to not want it. And i know i don't need a relationship to be happy because hell on for 20 years I’ve had the best time. But its so nice to know that i am not alone in being single in my 20s and i don't want to rush it i want to enjoy my time.

If you like someone ask for there number, dont send hints as if they can read it and wait for them to do it? Hows that benefiting anyone?

People worry about jobs, and what people in the world will think of what they do, but here’s the thing - none of that shit matters. When my mother died, I didn’t care what her job was or if she made a lot of money, the only thing I could think about was all the things I wouldn’t get to share with her. I wouldn’t get to laugh with her, she wouldn’t be there to help me study for my exams, or talk me through a heartache. The experiences that you share with the people you care about is the only thing worth working for. The only thing that, in the end, will matter. You won’t be on your deathbed remembering how you excelled in this or that company, or what grades you got, you’ll think of your loved ones. You’ll think of all the things you shared and mourn all the things you won’t be able to. So don’t bother worrying about societies expectations for you, live freely and love as often as you can.