#so...yeah...

Malleus during the climax of Glorious Masquerade: You see, Rollo, I hold a particularly potent animus towards you. Me: Malleus, I love ya, but I don't think that word means what you think it means. xD

If a trans person accidentally misgenders themself or uses terminology that doesn't align with their gender or lacktherof...That doesn't give you license to use that as a "gotcha" or reason to rub it in their face saying "See? You do it too!" just because they constantly need to keep correcting you on that and you take being corrected as some sort of personal attack. Sometimes they're not paying full attention, or maybe they were really out of it that day...it doesn't matter! The point is, do not expect them to always be on top of correcting you just because you refuse to even put forth effort into gendering them correctly.

anyway here’s this article where natalie portman talks about regretting signing that polanksi letter and admits it was mistake she made. she also talks about the ‘all men’ golden globes thing where she was asked to do that but also did not want to disrespect the other nominees.