#sileneon

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sileneon: a trans (or otherwise non-cis) person who is typically not attracted to all genders, but is t4t/tlt/campion towards all genders. a trans/non-cis person who prioritizes or prefers relationships with other trans/non-cis people to the point that their own typical gender preferences do not always matter towards their t4t/tlt/campion attraction.

another term i’ve been thinking about coning for a while!

i find myself, as someone who typically feels no sexual attraction to women, thinking more and more about how i feel very t4t towards trans and nonbinary women. i realized that, while i would not date just any woman, i have felt so wonderful in every relationship i’ve had with another trans person that i feel my love for and attraction towards other trans people sometimes transcends my typical orientation.

i found the alternate term ‘campion’ for t4t/tlt, which is the inspiration for this name! campions are flowers in the silene genus, so this term is named after that.

the flag places pink, blue, and white stripes (modified from the trans flag) in the middle to represent the centering of trans love! additionally, i made versions with two versions of a t4t/campion symbol.

gender-wise: - pink is for trans/nonbinary women and other female or feminine genders/alignments - blue is for trans/nonbinary men and other male or masculine genders/alignments - purple is for those who are both male/female and/or masculine/feminine and for gnc trans people - green is for those who are neutrally gendered, partially gendered, agender, and anything similar - white is for those who are pangender, bigender, or otherwise multigender - yellow is for those whose genders don’t fit neatly into these categories (such as xenogenders/neogenders, agender men/women, etc.)

as for more poetic meanings: - yellow: joy and optimism - purple: pride and devotion - pink: kindness and love (and/or attraction, for loveless aros and others who prefer not to define their orientation as a form of love) - white: understanding and wholeness - blue: loyalty and safety - green: nature and life

Cleo de Nile from Monster High is a sileneon trans postmale percimasculine kosmimal excemascle azurgirl who uses she/her, he/him, and they/them pronouns, and she’s friends with Draculaura, an abrosexual pastelgothcoric tierbabypianic doodleclipic baby-gender helunyx gendercute pinkgender age regressor with ADHD who uses pink/pinks and vamp/vamps pronouns! Cleo is dating Ghoulia Yelps, an autistic nonverbal transmasculine nonbinary genderplot demiromantic demisexual pansexual lesbian who uses he/him, they/them, groan/groans, zomb/zombie, and 🧟/🧟s pronouns!

The three are BFFs with Clawdeen Wolf, a butch butchgender nonbinary transmasculine lesbian who uses he/him pronouns and is dating Frankie Stein, an autistic cupcakegumic pixelgameic auticatgender aromantic lesbian who uses kitty/kittys, bubble/bubbles, and 🐸/🐸s pronouns! Kitty is friends with Lagoona Blue, a pansexual fluidstimmian copygender mirrorpronominal person with ADHD who uses stim/stims pronouns and is dating Gil Webber, an ambiamorous bisexual trans man! Lagoona is friends with Abbey Bominable, a lesbian trans woman who uses ze/hir pronouns!

a trans (or otherwise non-cis) person who is typically not attracted to all genders, but is t4t/tlt/campion towards all genders. a trans/non-cis person who prioritizes or prefers relationships with other trans/non-cis people to the point that their own typical gender preferences do not always matter towards their t4t/tlt/campion attraction.

Hey there! This is a trans*-focused attraction positivity blog! You may call me Beo (bay-o); I'm a transmasc nonbinary dude and an adult.

I found this term - Sileneon - a few months ago, and immediately clicked with it as a primarily m/nblm person. I also see very little positivity for queer wlm/mlw relationships (mspec folks, transhet folks, etc), so after a while of deliberation (and struggling to choose a URL) I made this blog :)

My posts will primarily be focused on sileneon/tlt/campion content but the blog is intended to be a queer mlw/wlm safe haven in general. I aim to have my non-explicitly-TLT posts as inclusive as possible. This blog is also generally 16+ but I personally advise you to be 18+ as there may be suggestive content (which will be tagged appropriately, including with #minors dni for easy filtering)

All my mlw/wlm posts include any nonbinary/genderqueer folks that ID with those terms!

You can send in your own gushing or positivity through asks or submissions, and I'll post it to the blog! However, I have the right to delete asks and submissions at my discretion. Anon will be on and off periodically.

Most of the people I don't want interacting probably won't pay any attention to this, so here's a pretty cursory DNI so y'all know what I stand for. If the following could not interact with this blog, that would be great:

Terfs/tehms/swerfs, gender critical/radfems, transmeds/radmeds/terfs, aphobe, biphobe, anti-neopronoun, anti-mogai, believe transandrophobia doesn’t exist, anti-kin, anti-queer, anti-mspec lesbians and gays, gatekeep femme and butch, pronoun policer, etc etc.

As a singlet I don’t participate in syscourse but I stick with the pro-endo crowd.

Ulysses from ENA is an autistic sileneon greyplatonic panromantic hexian pangender person with ADHD, OCD, Tourette’s, and psychosis who uses it/its pronouns, and it’s in a QPR with The Shepherd, a pan-oriented aroace lepugender nonbinary girl with ADHD who uses sol/sols and they/them pronouns, as well as she/her auxiliary pronouns! Ulysses is also in a non-attractional marriage with Ena, a bisexual trans man who uses he/him, they/them, and most neopronouns!