The key to a happyier relationship.
Most of us is fond of reading or is attentive when it comes to the topic love, siguro sa kadahilanang kahit never pang na experience yung ganitong bagay, somehow parang ka relate relate right?
I may not have the perfect love story in town but I believe I have the happiest, mala roller coaster ride sa dami ng up and down at pa ikot-ikot na naganap, minsan ng napahiyaw, naiyak at natuwa sa bawat yugtong aking natanaw.
Base on my own experience, (Naks, lakas maka influencer) So, ano nga ba ang mga bagay bagay o dapat gawin upang magkaroon ng mas lasting at masayang relatio ship?
Stay lowkey- guys, if your partner doesn't post about your relationship sa social media, it doesn't mean na hindi sya proud sainyo, guys, o kaya hindi kayo tinatag sa mga relationship something, trust me, mas better pag ganyan para iwas sa toxic, iwas sa mapang husgang lipunan na pag uumpisahan lang ng di nyo pag kakaintindihan, having a circle of friends who you trust is enough, wag ka ng mag hangad ng more, stay low lang guys. Wag rin gaanong mag settle sa mga syusyaling bagay, wag kang "gusto ko to, gusto ko yan, gusto ko dito, gusto ko dun" di mo sya ATM bes, antayin mong ibigay nya yun sayo, at kung hindi man yun yung ibigay nya be thankful parin.
Never compare- yes you read it right, wag kang mainggit sa mga relationship goals na nakikita mo sa social media such as travelling together, hiking, dining in a fancy resto and a lot more, you have your own way of achieving your relationship goals, hindi man agad agad pero you'll get there you just have to be patience, wag nyong ipilit yung gusto mo. And onething pa, it doesn't mean na you gave something na grande sa partner mo you eh you expect something big in return too, ekis yan fren, wag mo i compare yung kaya mong ibigay sa kung anong kaya nya lang. And the looks guys, wag na wag nyong i cocompare yan, sobrang sakit yan sa part ng partner nyo, as much as possible make them feel na sila ang pinaka magandang/gwapong nilalang sa balat ng lupa. Matuto dapat makuntento.
Appreciate the little things- parati to nyo sigurong nababasa to, mahirap minsan diba? Pero learn to do it, always appreciate anything that your partber does it might be something big or small pero sakanya buong puso at effort nya yun, learn to appreciate guys, wag mag hangad ng sobra sobra, it might be "something lang" for you pero sakanya yun na ang lahat na meron sya, as long as na you are happy, that is more than enough.
Stop stalking- yes! Please lang! Jk hahahaha, pero seryoso, stop stalking guys, specially the "Ex's" kasi nga you'll end up hurting yourself, tapos mag seself pity ka, ang ending mag aaway kayo ng partner mo right? Kaya awat na bes, be thankful nalang at sayo na sya ngayon okay? One thing pa pala, avoid yourself from looking at your partners timeline and checking his activity and stuff, always keep in mind na hindi ka nya bodyguard to check up everything okay? Wag ganon, nakakasakal pag oa masyadi guys, okay lang mag tanong pero wag mang away.
Be understanding- open your mind to the possibilities na hindi lang ikaw ang magiging tao sa buhay nya, marami pa syang makikilala fren, which means madami ka pang pag seselosan, kayaĀ wag ganun, di lahat ng tao sa paligid nya kailangang pag usapan, give them their "me" time, and when you give that, make sure na dika mag aaligaga na magtetext ng mag tetext, kasi pag ganun di na sya nag enjoy, and onething pa, friends are friends never ever dare to replace their friends place dahil kahit anong magagawa mo di mo makakayang palitan yun, pag nag paalam sayo, payagan mo, kesa di magsasabi tapos pag nalaman mo aawayin mo okay? Mas mabuti ng nag papaalam sya sayo para atleast namomonitor mo sya diba?
Love unconditionally- wag kang choosy fren, love is love, manners matters, plus nalang siguro kung goodlooking, siguro one if the reason kaya people are unable to be happy in their relationship kasi na pagiging choosy, love all the flaws, kasama yan sa package umpisa palang ng relasyon nyo, and, your acceptance in what they are as a partner is something na tatak sakanila for the rest of your relationship and the reason for them to love you even more.
So ayan lang guys, kung may kulang or may karanungan kayo maaring ipag bigay alam saakin, joke! Ang mahalaga guys you accept one another whole heartedly, regardless of all the imperfection, in that way, you already have a not so perfect but a happy relationship.
