"if he really really wants to continue to say the shit he did then he coulda just said to unsub or something and just fuckin dropped it" yeah but... he still said the n word. he still said r*tard. there's no good way to recover from that expect apologizing and never doing it again, it's not a "don't like don't watch" situation?
well i didnt know he said that first one in which case thats fucked up and he should apologize
however retarded is slang and lots of people use it these days as a replacement for other insults and by no means holds the same weight it used to considering that nobody in this day and age would use it in a derogatory way
whereas people still to this day use the nword in a derogatory way and seeing as how there is a loooot of heavy history behind it carries much more weight
so what im saying is you really have two very different things here even tho both were used to dehumanize people but the thing is one still does to this day while the other has become a slang term and is no longer used as a derogatory statement
dont get me wrong he should apologize big time esp how hes acting now
and esp because he has gotten many many people confronting him about both things
when you get maybe 1-2 people saying they didnt like something you said (and im referring to retarded here) then you have the room to say 'dont like dont sub' but when it becomes an even bigger issue thats when you need to yield and realize apologies are in order