The amount of queer men defending queer men only for queer women to call them violent and dangerous and oppressive for being men I've seen on here is crazy.
I have met more women and fem aligned folks who treated me (a "girl") like shit than I have men and masc aligned. The patriarchy gives cishetallo men an advantage to everyone, yes, but have we stopped to consider that trans men, masc nonbinarys, and other men/masc aligned people aren't given that? Ffs a trans man was literally born into a "woman's role"! He has faced misogyny! He has had to deal with the patriarchy discrediting him because obviously he's just "a confused woman"!
This infighting is insane and by calling all men and masc aligned people evil for identifying as men, you're pushing the same borderline fascist ideals that have been used by bigots throughout time. Men are dangerous, black people are dangerous, the Jews and the gays and everyone who has been called dangerous based on a facet of themselves. Do you not see it?
A queer man should not have to explain his existence and why he deserves a space to you people, he should be allowed in because he's queer and not rejected on the basis that he's a man. We've had enough exclusionists, we've had enough bigotry. We're not the "fem and fem-adjacent queer community" we're the fucking lgbtqia+, if you're scared to let a trans man into your trans space, then you need to do some intospection.
And to anyone who finds my post and thinks to write some shit about the "dangers of men", keep in mind that I myself am a man. Agender men, nonbinary men, trans men, intersex men, we're all men, but we're all queer men, and that's what should be fucking important here.
