#selfidenity

He doesn’t really have an identity in his own but being in the minds of others, seeing how they see him, that’s where he starts to build one.

Wednesday Wisdom dares us to be different! . . Love yourself for who you are; be bold, unique but always true to yourself. . . Get to know yourself well, as many of us tend to lose our true identity getting lost in "roles;” as others define us; wife, mother, volunteer, career-role, etc. . . Identity is key. Meditate or simply isolate for discovery. Define yourself! . . . . #WednesdayWisdom #daretobedifferent #WomenofWednesday #LoveYou #BeYou #meditate #isolate #celebrateyouruniqueness #blessed #selfidenity #youdefineyou #godisgood @NikeAdeyemi (at Dunwoody, Georgia)

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Its not funny when someone sounds off and seems to be screaming at the world. They aren’t playing the victim, they are asking for help. The problem is they don’t know how to ask for it, so that plea for assistance comes out in erratic forms of violence, that can either be subtle or dramatic. Sending positive vibes or talking positively around the person are not enough. One needs to physically confront the person and say that they are taking their situation seriously. That they believe the words and situations that are happening to them  as a serious event. Many are so easy to brush things off and count external  issues as anothers responiblity, but it honestly is not. If you know about it you’re responsible. if you care enough about a person to gossip about them, you should care enough to know their side of the story. When people say, be the change they want to see in the world, one has to be confrontational  in order for this to be achieved. If the person doesn’t know how you feel about them, one can count themselves as just another toxic person to be removed. And with all respect your responsibility then becomes to move out of the way so that person who is in pain can find their way of coping with the situation.