secondhermione said: I love you. Iām so sorry youāve gone through this - it wasnāt your fault and you didnāt deserve it. Your thoughts and feelings are completely justified, and I donāt think youāre crazy, just in a vulnerable place atm. Heartbreak is an awful thing.
ereshkigal said: iām so sorry love. your pain and hurt is so valid though, fuck him. you have the best of wishes from me. <3
steinbecks said: your feelings are valid and legitimate and youāre not insane. from everything youāve said, it sounds like he deliberately kept things from you, but there is no reason for you to doubt the reality of what happened.
thank you, guys. this means a lot to me. Iāve been so scared that iāve been feeling entitled to something from him, but I think I really just want an acknowledgment that something went wrong.Ā
and i know I wonāt get that from him. but it helps to hear that Iām not the bad guy. (not that iāve behaved perfectly, i just mean itās a relief that others think my perception of what happened is valid.) Iāve wondered if I need to apologize to him or make amends. but iād rather keep my distance.Ā