#scruffless

It seems all of my attempts at opening communication (and everyone else’s for that matter) have been met with the mighty swing of the banhammer. She’s even gone so far as to make her blog private, where she’ll inevitably continue posting art of my OCs so that she and her current circle of friends can fawn over them as if they’re not ... mine? (All while clearly keeping tabs on the responses she’s receiving and passively replying elsewhere instead of actually answering anyone.)

The behavior is pretty bizarre, honestly. I don’t really understand the mindset behind “hating your abuser” but going so out of your way to continue enjoying their personal creations. Complete disregard is being given toward the fact that these characters were created by and belong to me, and it’s being perceived as a massive insult that I would have the “audacity” to put my name on that which is mine.

“Apparently nothing is sacred to her lmfao. There’s a word for that: Selfish.”

Another one to add to the list of wrongful, confusing accusations. I’m selfish and committing sacrilege by pointing out that my OCs belong to me. I’m selfish because I won’t let you take my OCs while simultaneously treating me like dirt. I’m selfish for ... owning my own things, apparently.

Pretty sure ‘selfish’ isn’t the right word there. If you’d like a lesson in proper word association, here’s a few that come to mind in regards to this situation: childish, cowardly, inane, baffling, exasperating.

But if you’d like to discuss “nothing being sacred,” how about the level of gall it takes to brutally slander someone you once called your best friend after abruptly cutting them out of your life without ever telling them why and then proceeding to surround yourself with their creations as if somehow you have any right to them at all.

You know why your head feels like it’s in a box? Because you keep shoving it in there to block out anyone who doesn’t agree with your delusional nonsense. You can take the box off, you know. Maybe third time’s the charm and you’ll actually give some thought to fixing this instead of just silencing anyone who contradicts you. Again, the invitation is there.

Takes a deep breath. This is exhausting. How much longer are we going to keep this up? The bullshit has been exposed and people are seeing you for who you really are. What are you even trying to do now? Other than continuing your mad dash away from anything that might actually resolve this situation, both toward me and everyone else calling you out. 

This doesn’t really require an introduction. My mom witnessed firsthand a lot of the same things I’m dealing with right now regarding @fendition / @scruffless, and she’s put in her two cents on the issue. Sticking it under a read more for length. 

Mika,

I'm appalled by the blatant and ridiculous lies you are putting out there regarding my daughter and our family. How dare you? You lived in my home rent free for six months. 

I don’t understand how you could claim that I abused you, but then eagerly flood your art blog with pictures of my OCs. Stand alone pictures, shipping pictures, silly little scribbles and nonsense doodlings.

I don’t understand how you could claim that I ruined you and that you needed to cut me out of your life, but you’re still tagging things debating which of our OCs you ship more than others. You’re still using the cute little tags we, or I, created for my OCs.

How can you be so heartless and continue to use my characters for your amusement while openly spitting in my face? There’s no question that it’s sadistic, the only question is just how willfully sadistic it is.