#scolding

Puppy needs an owner who’s gonna scold him when he’s bratty… I wanna be put in my place.. nnppf

So this is an excerpt from the Disciplinary Couples Club blog that I shared with Wifey recently. She seemed somewhat receptive, and somewhat like of course she already knew that. She even brought it up at the most inconvenient moment for me… while she was tanning my hide.

I sent it, and a few other thoughts, because it peaked my interest, but upon reflection I found that I agree completely. Most of what we do in our DD might be considered authentic “Maternal Authority.” Wifey is the Mama of the house, and she generally has no problem using that authority. I’ve found that the firmer, stricter, and “because I said so” she is, the easier it is for me to walk the line and thrive.

As for the inevitable “consequences,” I reluctantly agree with that too. When I am… ahem… receiving my comeuppance, the very last thing I want is for it to be harder and worse. But the above commenter has a solid argument. The discipline spankings I received as a boy were real tearjerkers, and I’d be kicking, squalling, and most often bawling before it was over. To scale that up for a full-size athletic adult man, I am apprehensive at best. But I want it to be serious, authentic, maternal, and most important effective. So if I need to be spanked much harder to the point of overwhelmed to get that equivalent experience…

I’ll regret this at some point. But yes, I agree.

HH!

Pro tip for DD, from a husband who is “in the trenches.”

Domestic Discipline is more than just beating his butt. You are cultivating discipline by creating an environment. Your mischievous hubby likely needs to be spoken to firmly. Remind him how to behave, and threaten with the “next step.” He needs you to give “the look.” Point your finger, count to three, set his bad little hiney on the naughty chair or put his nose in the corner.

This isn’t a game, when it’s time to discipline, don’t act like you are going on a cheerful Sunday picnic. Cultivate “strict,” because if he has initiated this relationship, I can guarantee that he feels comforted and loved from a strict, no nonsense woman taking charge of his behavior. The more serious and authoritative you act, the better he will get the message. Ten out of ten DD husbands agree, more verbally strict is better.

Try it Ladies, you will be very pleased with the results.