#strict lady

So this is an excerpt from the Disciplinary Couples Club blog that I shared with Wifey recently. She seemed somewhat receptive, and somewhat like of course she already knew that. She even brought it up at the most inconvenient moment for me… while she was tanning my hide.

I sent it, and a few other thoughts, because it peaked my interest, but upon reflection I found that I agree completely. Most of what we do in our DD might be considered authentic “Maternal Authority.” Wifey is the Mama of the house, and she generally has no problem using that authority. I’ve found that the firmer, stricter, and “because I said so” she is, the easier it is for me to walk the line and thrive.

As for the inevitable “consequences,” I reluctantly agree with that too. When I am… ahem… receiving my comeuppance, the very last thing I want is for it to be harder and worse. But the above commenter has a solid argument. The discipline spankings I received as a boy were real tearjerkers, and I’d be kicking, squalling, and most often bawling before it was over. To scale that up for a full-size athletic adult man, I am apprehensive at best. But I want it to be serious, authentic, maternal, and most important effective. So if I need to be spanked much harder to the point of overwhelmed to get that equivalent experience…

I’ll regret this at some point. But yes, I agree.

HH!

Happy Thanksgiving!

I may not share it around the table, but today I am grateful for our relationship growth and commitment that has come through embracing Domestic Discipline. Of course most of all I am grateful to @strict-consistent-wifey who has stepped into and developed her role as my disciplinarian, and taken control as the Mama of our home.

I certainly did not think I would grow up to be thankful for strict discipline and regular hard spankings, but the results speak for themselves, and DD has done so much for us. Here is to more growth going forward!