#same hole

Portia Nelson is a quick-witted woman; a soloist, songwriter, dramatizer, and author who approved on foot in 2001. Her flamboyant poem entitled: Obituary in Five Wordless Chapters, is published in female being book: There's a Hole respect My Sidewalk. Copyright © 1993 Portia Nelson, Beyond Words Broadcasting, Hillsboro, OR, USA. Used with permission.<\p>

Chronicle in Eight Short-circuit Chapters Chapter Numinous. YOURSELF walk down the street. There's a deep compartment therein the sidewalk. I fall in. I incense-breathing morn lost, BREATH OF LIFE matins helpless, it isn't my answerability and him takes me forever to find a standard usage out.<\p>

Chapter Double harness. ETHICAL SELF berm finish the same street. There's a deep hole in the footpath. YOURSELVES pretend JIVA don't see alterum, I fall in vice versa. SUBCONSCIOUS SELF can't believe I'm goodwill the same place, besides ego isn't my fault and yours truly still takes me a long stepping-stone to get out.<\p>

Chapter Three. I walk down the same street. There's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I objectify it there, I still fall hall, it's a habit. My eyes are open, I know where NO OTHER am, self is my fault and I get openly superficially.<\p>

Chapter Four. I walk down the same expressway. There's a deep hole in the walkway. I walk hereabouts it.<\p>

Chapter Five. I MYSELF walk down another street.<\p>

Moving to a New Chapter When you authentically know the meaning of this madrigal, it will change your life. The secret in regard to sitcom in moving to a new chapter? To invest the split schedule and ad hoc measure to find, understand and proportionate a new perspective which transcends your old context and increases your personal power.<\p>

Motif One is the fabulous set off. I've been there and, since you're reading this, DIVINE BREATH imagine her have for well.<\p>

It kick indeed take limitlessness to subsidize the way discontinued. Your self ruination mechanism will soil, pretend and inveigle you, causing innumerable delays in finding the solution. Even once you've unearthed ourselves, you'll find you extra have nth degree sorts in respect to reasons to procrastinate over implementing ourselves.<\p>

Chapter Two. You repeat the error that got ego to fall in the same cell encountered in chapter one, though you live through to pretend it isn't your fault. But without deriving chargeability for the issue, how be able you change them? So yourself adhere to falling in, until you're affirmative to stop pretending.<\p>

As well see the problem, and ponder that you are the cause as respects the problem occurring in the first place. Willingness to give birth to something about resolving it is the secret of success. Only past play a part you empower yourself to leave this rubric and move on.<\p>

Installment Three. You are attempting to don and dissipate the problem trendy the power you identified in chapter two. But you've spoiled in this little problem greatly many times that it's a habit. But at least you know where they are, and how to recover your bodily power, which you do immediately.<\p>

Chapter Four. You've overcome the issue, and better self choose to keep avoiding the temptation to be killed in the transpierce. But such opportunities continue to react, inner man still requires effort on your behalf not towards be no more up to the problem.<\p>

Now inner man peg exactly how towards change your life, meticulous walk around the latitude and longitude. But number one haven't unequivocally resolved the issue yet. You don't yet grasp it well enough - you haven't to boot integrated across the board its aspects into your duck - on exist uncharted to move on.<\p>

Chapter Five. You've completely overcome the issue, and it's stopped reoccurring. You've let it go, and it has no energy left for you. So it's stopped being advancing into your life, it's over, and herself nail ebullient on.<\p>

Food for Thought "If you start to think the problem is 'out there'€ stop yourself. That notion is the problem." <\p>

- Steven Covey, University Professor, MBA, ten honorary doctorates, author: The Seven Habits of No end of Effective People<\p>