[nonthreateningbdg] 3, 9, 19
Thanks for the ask dude!!
(Also sorry in advance bc I went off on some of these when it was objectively not necessary lmao)
3- Do you prefer to be friends with girls or boys?
It really just depends on the person/ people tbh. I’ve had friends groups of primarily guys and primarily girls, and somehow I’ve had both suck. When reduced to their worst form, the girls will talk shit about other people, and the guys will objectify other people. Basically, a lot of people are bad and you should be kinda selective in who you choose to spend your time with.
(Btw, not saying this is true for EVERY friend group, this is just. what you’ll find in American high school a good chunk of the time)
9- Do you wear jeans or sweats more?
I wear jeans more, but mostly bc I own more pairs and I haven’t really had time to go out and buy pants in a while. I only have one pair of sweatpants lol
19- If you could change your eye color, would you?
I don’t think I would now, but had I gotten this question five years ago I probably would have said yes. Growing up, I used to be SUPER insecure about my eyes bc my complexion is a bit dark (especially in the arms; did not go to my face tho lol) and it felt like I contrasted myself. Somehow, I felt like I would make more sense if I had brown eyes bc it would “match” the rest of me. Now, I don’t think it really matters bc I stopped equating my worth with my appearance and realized my eyes could be whatever color and it wouldn’t make a difference in my contribution to whatever I do or significantly alter what I look like. (I dunno if that’s a NORMAL struggle w growing up mixed, but it’s one I had)
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