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Thanks for the ask dude!!

(Also sorry in advance bc I went off on some of these when it was objectively not necessary lmao)

3- Do you prefer to be friends with girls or boys?

It really just depends on the person/ people tbh. I’ve had friends groups of primarily guys and primarily girls, and somehow I’ve had both suck. When reduced to their worst form, the girls will talk shit about other people, and the guys will objectify other people. Basically, a lot of people are bad and you should be kinda selective in who you choose to spend your time with.

(Btw, not saying this is true for EVERY friend group, this is just. what you’ll find in American high school a good chunk of the time)

9- Do you wear jeans or sweats more?

I wear jeans more, but mostly bc I own more pairs and I haven’t really had time to go out and buy pants in a while. I only have one pair of sweatpants lol

19- If you could change your eye color, would you?

I don’t think I would now, but had I gotten this question five years ago I probably would have said yes. Growing up, I used to be SUPER insecure about my eyes bc my complexion is a bit dark (especially in the arms; did not go to my face tho lol) and it felt like I contrasted myself. Somehow, I felt like I would make more sense if I had brown eyes bc it would “match” the rest of me. Now, I don’t think it really matters bc I stopped equating my worth with my appearance and realized my eyes could be whatever color and it wouldn’t make a difference in my contribution to whatever I do or significantly alter what I look like. (I dunno if that’s a NORMAL struggle w growing up mixed, but it’s one I had)

Thanks so much for the ask my dude!!

11) what’s your starbucks order?

This might be weird, but if the day is colder, I’ll probably have a drink w caramel in it, but if it’s hot, I’ll get their iced strawberry tea (which isn’t really tea tbh)

13) what was your first fandom?

First fandom I was really in was Dan and Phil, aka the Phandom. The dynamic of what was ok on there is kinda when I started to realize that shipping real people is weird, and the phandom is really huge and toxic unless you have a great tight-knit group of people you interact with. My main blog is w that fandom and it has like triple to followers I have here, but they’re either pornbots or accounts that haven’t been used in years. So you can imagine why I’m not there much.

19) what is something you own way too many or much of?

I have a lot of teabags, considering that I’m the only one in my house who actually drinks tea. I have mutiple kinds w packs of 20 just for me and what mood I’m in, which seems excessive