#r.a.c.k

hey ;P I'm sonny, I'm trying to restart with this account after i got got 😭 he/him, ftm/N-CAH, bodily 22. we are a traumagenic system and i (sonny) am an introject. this is just a place for me to dump my horny thoughts and the occasional teasing photo. I'm a bit of a masochist, i love being manhandled and toyed with, and I have a massive blood kink. but most of all, I have the hormones of a 16 year old boy, and this is my outlet for the bullshit that comes with that. enjoy 💀

STUFF WE WILL PROBABLY POST ABOUT:

CNC (I use the word "rape" for fantasy purposes)

somno, including intoxication-based play

fauxcest/incest play

ageplay/sex while age regressed

petplay/sex while pet regressed

violence, including blood and possibly self harm

breeding and impreg

disordered eating themes, both in and outside of a sexual context

system shit, potentially involving in-sys or source family (side eying my girlfriend w this one)

LIMITS:

detrans

scat

heavy gore

kidnapping & stalking

tpe/controlling my every move (i like being controlled and commanded during sex, but i will not be your 24/7 plaything.)

feral (anthro/fictional species/cartoon characters r fine)

sending porn without telling me first what kind of porn ur sending

Then you can't have sex with them.

Even if they're "making move on you" or are expressing interest in sex.

Even if they can nod, or say yes.

Showing sexual interest isn't all there is to consent.

Can they express in their own words about the risks of the action?

Are they sober at the time of giving consent?

Are you on equal levels at the time of consent? Or is there already a power imbalance? (Such as being someone's boss, or teacher, etc)

Will they be in a position where they can safely withdraw consent at any time? Such as a Safe Word?

And so much more.

And remember, if someone tells you that one or all of these questions "don't matter" THEN RUN. Cause they don't have your safety and best interests at heart.

RACK means Risk Aware Consentual Kink. Its a general guideline on how to stay as safe as possible for intimacy and BDSM activities. Emphasis on the consent. (Ssc, or Safe sane consentual is an older but more known model for this)

Im a paraphile (and pro-paraphile) who follows and endorses this method for following consent and risk management.

(Paraphilia being a more medical term for fetishes. Basically "Atypical sexual attractions")

Anti-beastialist just means im against beastiality (the act of humans having sex with animals). As nonhuman animals cannot consent.

In the pro-paraphile sphere, there's a concept of being "pro-contact" or "anti-contact". Pro-c meaning you think its okay for people to act on their attractions. Amd Anti-c meaning you think its not okay for them to act on their attraction.

The problem with that is that paraphilia doesnt just count "necrophilia, pedophilia, zoophilia" its also stuff like, feet, plushies, fictional characters. So you cant really put a blanket "its okay/not okay for EVERYONE to act on urges"

So instead of pro/anti i say "Follow the RACK model" if it checks all the boxes, then its most likely okay to act on. If it doesnt, then dont.

Thanks for asking!

It's an acronym that stands for risk-aware consensual kink.

It's essentially the idea that all participants in kinky activity should be aware of the risks associated with said activity before engaging in it.