Since my divorce process started up until it was finalized, I’ve been doing a lot of inner working, self care and reflection.
On my journey , I've been doing a lot of reading. A lot of stuff on healing after divorce, dating , partnership, romance etc.
In the spiritual community we talk a lot about “manifesting” the right partner . I’ve begun to think the about the qualities and characteristics I want and need out of my future partners...
Today I stumbled on a thought... I’ve spent a lot of time crafting my “perfect” partner . Now I think it’s time to reflected on the type of partner I want to be.
How can I work through my trauma so that I am receptive to this dynamic type of love? What is my love language? What is my apology language? How to I envision my love showing up? How can I be a fulfilling lover? Can I resolve conflict in a gentle way that makes space for me and my partner to be heard?