Queen Philippa of Hainaultโs letter to her sister, Margaret.
At last I can write and tell you that I am a wife! Ned and I were married in York on the 24th, or thereaboutsโI always did have a poor head for dates, as you well know. Anyway, it was a very nice wedding, presided over by Archbishop William Melton. It was snowing and cold in York, but the new robes Papa bought me before I came here kept me very warm. Queen Isabella said that it helped too that I had some meat on my bones. (Sheโs such a witch, Meg.) I just pretended I didnโt hear her. Stupid cow.
I was hoping that I would be able to tell you that I had been crowned, but Queen Isabella told me that I had to wait! When I asked why, she would only say, โWe need to find a more suitable time.โ Ned was furious when she said thatโheโs so handsome when heโs angry, though, I really didnโt mind. But I am rather upset that I canโt get crowned until God knows when, especially since Uncle Edmundโthatโs the old kingโs brother, the Earl of Kentโsaid that the queen was crowned when she was twelve years old, so why should I have to wait when Iโm older than that now? The queen was not happy when he said that, and neither was Uncle Roger. But they didnโt say anything, just gave him a look. (The Queen and Uncle Roger are really good at giving people looks.)
Oh, I should mention that Uncle Roger is Roger Mortimer, whom they call the queenโs โclose advisor.โ They must think weโre really stupid in Hainault, not to know what they really are to each other. Once I get to know Ned a little better, Iโm sure heโll tell me all I want to know about that story. In the meantime, I just put on my Iโm-just-a-naive-little-girl-from-Hainault face whenever they ogle each other in public. (Itโs so disgusting.)
Speaking of my new in-laws, had you heard that my father-in-law, the late Edward the Second, was buried just last month? I got to England just after the funeral. Iโve learned that talking about the late king is a definite no-no around the Queen and Uncle Roger, though. When I asked what he had died of in Berkeley Castle they started to give me looks, but then they told me to run along and play with Ned. (I think thatโs their code for begetting an heir. So I didnโt mind doing that at all.)
I donโt have a household of my own yet, like a kingโs wife should. When I asked the queen about that very nicely (Iโm always very polite to her, Meg, donโt worry), she got the usual expression on her face and snapped, โWell, at least your husband didnโt give all of your wedding jewels to his lover,โ and Uncle Roger laughed. I really didnโt understand the humor in that, but I suppose when youโre the queenโs โclose advisorโ (wink), you can laugh at just about anything.
Ned is very sweet, though, and even more handsome than he was when he came to Hainault. Uncle Edmund told me that he looks a lot like his father, and that certainly got the looks from Queen Isabella and Uncle Roger! (Poor man, heโs always getting looks from them. I think if I were him Iโd go on pilgrimage for a while.) But unlike his father, Ned really enjoys tournaments, and weโve been having a lot of them to celebrate. Ned and Uncle Roger both joust, and you know whose favor Uncle Roger gets to wear! (So very subtle.)
Well, I must go now; the queen has sent one of her ladies to tell me weโll be late for the tournament if I donโt quit fussing with my hair (thatโs what I tell her Iโm doing when Iโm writing to you). Sigh. But I suppose mothers-in-law are what we married women have to put up with, arenโt they?
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