#q tw

I’ve been trying to find a label for myself, manly so I can explain I to myself. Like I’m not sure am straight but Im not sure am bi either. I’m not gay, but maybe bi? I don’t know. But I saw something on here a while ago, quasi- something and I kind of related to that to? I think that was something on the ace spectrum? Do you know anything about it? Is it ok that I don’t know?? Is there something like inbetween straight and bi? Or is that just having a preference?

Sorry for all the questions! Don’t mean to be disrespectful (if I am) I just know so little about this because the only time I meet anyone who talks about this is on tumblr.

You’re not being disrespectful at all!! I’m probably not the best person to ask this, but I’ll try my best!

I completely understand wanting to have labels to describe yourself to...yourself. As long as you like your labels, that’s all that matters. If you’re comfortable with it and just want to use an umbrella term until you figure it out (or if), then you could always just identify as queer!

It is absolutely ok not to know yet!! There is nothing wrong with that in the slightest. I, personally, don’t even know. I think I might be pan, but I’m not entirely sure and that’s fine! It’ll take time and if you never figure it out, that’s ok too!! Also, if you’re asking if it’s ok not to know the term, that’s ok too. There are SO SO SO MANY genders and sexualities and romantic orientations, so it’s definitely ok to not know it. I’m not entirely sure what you’re talking about, but I hope you find it!