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Hmmm.. @Maxwell not only responded to me on #instagram but put me in his #instastory THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH ( don't cry @fullfiguredfierce) Listen....Let me tell you about MY #GOD I was gifted tickets to the show last night by my best friend because on Thursday my husband was told he had to have a #bonemarrowtransplant because his #Leukemia had become aggressive. My best friend said we needed some joy. That was NOTHING but GOD because we were really down but STILL DETERMINED to fight this fight. We took ONE DAY to cry and scream and just let it out and Friday when we woke up we said F...CANCER... If its a Fight you want.. Its a fight you get. Rewind to fast Forward : this journey to build confidence in my #Plus #QUEENS and #KINGS has been a trying one. People have told me I am promoting obesity, building fake confidence.. You name it. Personally attacked Me, saying Im not pretty or worse #prettyforabiggirl , noone of substance will ever take me serious until THEY came in and made me and what I do 🔥smh... My niece came to see me at work Friday and showed me this poem #YOUARETHESUN and it stuck with me. So much so, that I decided to #shinebrightlikeadiamond and wore this outfit last night. I'm use to being in the background but last night I decided to #stepout and be the woman God made me to be. This is my Season for Grace, for Favor @williammurphy ( Lord that song has been on repeat in my head for DAYS) ..I am the 🌞. When I made that decision last night, God went into action and in the DARK, in a ROOM FULL OF PEOPLE, King Maxwell saw "little ol me" and not only responded to me but put me in his Instastory. I said ALL of that to say this... "When you ALLOW GOD to do what he does.. ( I don't care WHAT other people say about you) HE will BLOW YOUR MIND! STEP OUT ON FAITH COMPLETELY!! #testimony #wonthedoit #showoutgod #FULLFIGUREDFIERCE #WhoISTHEY #BeYOU #SHINE #blackandyellow #feelnoshamechallenge #Maxwell #bff #runandjump #Faith #plantgoodseeds #stayhumble (at Huntsville, Alabama) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpOXqJWgDEH/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1inrwljqgnmml

“You’re pretty for a big girl” 👀⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 🚨 NEWS FLASH: You can be proud of how you look and NOT fit a “societal ideal body type!” ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a thousand times, this is why I love to cosplay She-Hulk so much:⁣⁣ She’s large. She’s green. She has total control of her ability to “Hulk Out” and yet she CHOOSES to stay in her large green form because it makes her feel beautiful and powerful. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Your mindset determines how you feel about yourself. Once we add on outside factors such as societal pressure, traumatic experiences, and offhand comments from friends, family, or even strangers, we have a lot to dig through when it comes to our self-worth. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ The biggest one for me was when people would say “you’re pretty for a big girl.” ⁣⁣ ^ That comment was said to me 👏🏼 multiple 👏🏼 times 👏🏼 throughout 👏🏼 my 👏🏼 life 👏🏼 ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ It stuck with me in such a way that it became my philosophy. “I’m pretty, but I’m also undesirable.” “People think I’m great, heck, I even think I’m great, but there’s something wrong with my body.” ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I’ve had to do HARD WORK to unlearn those ideals. It isn’t easy but it is possible.⁣⁣ Merging cosplay & fitness helped me feel this way. There is so much POWER in channeling your inner superhero in your workouts. It carries through into your every day life. Since I’ve started cosplaying She-Hulk I walk taller, I take A LOT LESS SHIT, and ... I lift heavier in my workouts because I, like Jen, enjoy pushing my limits to see what I’m capable of. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I just want you to know that you CAN feel proud and confident in your own skin, societal norms be damned! It takes time, patience, and lots of growth, but it is possible. 💖⁣⁣ ⁣ 📸 = @louie_jr_nerdy_photographer ⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ #prettyforabiggirl #shehulk #shehulkcosplay #shulkie #bodyconfience #youarebeautiful #cospositive #cosplaycommunity #fitnerd #fandomandfitness #gymnerd #curvycosplay #strongher #youarestrongerthanyouknow #geeknasium https://www.instagram.com/p/B5tZysdDSqV/?igshid=7kkq5ybj8gbc

Somedays I'm a goddess somedays I'm a wild child and somedays I'm a fragile mess but there is not a day that goes by that I'm not myself #stonerchick #chickswhosmoke #prettyforabiggirl #allnatural #lovingmyself (at Centennial, Colorado)

Loving life without you everything is so bright now ❤❤❤❤ #chickswhosmoke #stonerchick #prettyforabiggirl #singleandhappy #staylifted (at Centennial, Colorado)

#effyourbeautystandards #iamenough #thisfatgirlisfabulous #youaretoo #bigandblunt #idontrequirevalidation #IAMFULLFIGUREDFIERCE #prettyforabiggirl #prettyperiod (at Dallas, Texas)

Model @hunni_tea #embracethecurves #thisfatgirlisfabulous #fatgirlfoto #TheMovement #harleygirl #effyourbeautystandards #curvywomen #keepingitcurvy #beautybeyondsize #dfwbloggers #ic360curvypick #curvyfashionista #plusmodelmag #boldncurvy #urbanfashion #psfashion #swimwear #dallasfashion #bigandblunt #prettyforabiggirl #prettyperiod #nosizebias #bodypositive #bopo #summer17 #psswimwear - #regrann (at South Dallas, Dallas)

Model @hunni_tea #embracethecurves #thisfatgirlisfabulous #fatgirlfoto #TheMovement #harleygirl #effyourbeautystandards #curvywomen #keepingitcurvy #beautybeyondsize #dfwbloggers #ic360curvypick #curvyfashionista #plusmodelmag #boldncurvy #urbanfashion #psfashion #swimwear #dallasfashion #bigandblunt #prettyforabiggirl #prettyperiod #nosizebias #bodypositive #bopo #summer17 #psswimwear - #regrann (at South Dallas, Dallas)

#effyourbeautystandards #iamenough #thisfatgirlisfabulous #youaretoo #bigandblunt #idontrequirevalidation #IAMFULLFIGUREDFIERCE #prettyforabiggirl #prettyperiod (at Dallas, Texas)