#potential partner

Ah confusing feelings huh? Maybe you could just try it out, kiss him if you want that way you can see how things go and see how things feel afterwards. Also consider telling him how you feel, if that is comfortable for you. I think this will just take a bit of time to figure out your feelings but that’s okay. At least you know that you don’t see him as a potential partner and wouldn’t want to do more than kiss him. I would say just to give yourself time and you’ll find your feelings soon.

-Jess

There are rumours that a potential partner for the programme has laid down some red lines

This dude called it a date, but has also been using the term hang out interchangeably.

No messages no calls, prior to today or even during or after the scheduled meet up time.

Idek what I feel. A mixture of anger and disappointment I guess.

I work at the same place as this guy so let's see how things go on Monday.

Once these little tests have been proven to him, he will begin to open up & share his world quite easily, in fact he’ll want nothing else but to include this person in his world.

 I covered this in a couple of HC’s but here we are in a nutshell just for you Anon!

- no over-sexed behavior that verges on sluttiness: whether it’s a guy, a girl, or someone intersex doing it, he loathes it entirely and will find it a massive turn-off (most guys do, believe it or not, when seeking potential partners)

- interestingly enough, he is also turned off by people being overly coy; to him,, overuse of suggestive coyness verges upon seeming intellectually challenged 

-  someone potentially damaged who can dream the way he does but who can also provide a level of balance for him and snap him back to reality when he gets out of hand with whims etc

- 100% honesty (even if the truth is awful) & loyalty

- a generous amount of determination as he will test people to see if they are worth his time & trust

- gender has no importance but they should be able to put up with his use of genderfucking (flamboyant sissification/feminization that can occur inside/outside the bedroom), along with his anger etc

- blonde is preferred in females but not a requirement

- patience: he is an older guy and works differently than a young man when it comes to intimacy, something he often feels anxious about when with a younger person

- intelligence & similar interests for late-night conversations

- someone who won’t push him to reveal his secrets

- an open mind to anything inc. kinky shenanigans