#polylesbians

Imagine this if you(me) will:

You're studying for finals for Pharmacy school, stressed and exhausted, having forgotten to eat all day long.

Wife notices that i'm too tired to take care of myself but doesn't have the emotional band-with after a long day at the shop so instead she goes out to buy us all Thai food and we get our own mango sticky rice.

Girlfriend had a great day and remembers me taking the time to listen to it eagerly before i started my work. She brings me a cup of Chai and gently rubs my shoulders then puts on some Lofi and sits down to help me with my flashcards.

Wife gets home right as i finish studying and am laying in girlfriend's lap watching mythical kitchen.

Wife gushes at how cute we are as i sit up and give her some space to the right of me while our girlfriend is to the left as we unpack our food and dig in.

We have an amazing dinner after a mostly stressful day and as were going to bed, kissing goodnight, we all have slow gentle, loving sex in the moonlight shining through our curtained window.

And in the morning, thankful for the wonderful care i received, i make their favorites for breakfast, bringing it up to our bedroom and gently wake them.

“But what if she likes her more than she likes you? How would you deal with that?” she asked.

“That’s impossible”, I said.

“That sounds pretty arrogant. What if she thinks she’s better than you?”

“Let me clarify - she cannot possibly be better than me... at being me. Just like I can’t be better than her at being her. I’m a banana, she’s an orange. She loves bananas and she loves oranges, but an orange is always going to be a better orange than a banana, and a banana beats an orange at being a banana every time”

“What?!”

“When she wants a banana, here I am. When she wants an orange, she’s her girl”

“...what if she wants a fruit salad?”

Happy st stevens day, usually celebrated with a family meal here in spain!

The quarantine, and moving 4 hours from Barcelona just afterwards, has made me value spending time with my wife’s family in a way I didn’t before.

In a world full of strangers, it is amazing to have people who were once strangers accept you into their circle, love you, take care of you. Even if it is in ways you don’t fully understand. The point is that having a family to spend time with, even if they’re not my personal family, has become something I missed and needed.